For Miranda Luby, discovering that she was a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) after taking an online quiz was initially validating and empowering. The label seemed to explain her intense emotional responses, from being overwhelmed by loud noises or strong smells to feeling deeply moved by art and nature. She felt like she had finally found someone who understood her.
As Luby delved deeper into the world of HSPs, she began to adopt a more cautious approach to life. She read about strategies for managing sensory overload, from "environmental scans" to wearing protective gear. The idea was that by recognizing and avoiding triggers, she could minimize feelings of overwhelm and anxiety. But as time went on, Luby started to feel like she was losing herself in the process.
The more she focused on her sensitivity, the more anxious she became. She found herself perpetually rehearsing worst-case scenarios, creating a mental "cage" around herself that only served to exacerbate her stress levels. It was as if she had turned her sensitivity into a pathology, viewing every experience through the lens of potential overwhelm.
Luby's story highlights the risks of self-diagnosis and online labeling. With the internet providing an endless array of information and frameworks for understanding human experience, it can be tempting to latch onto a label that feels like a key to unlocking one's identity. But experts warn that this approach can lead to hyper-vigilance and pathological thinking.
The good news is that Luby eventually realized that her sensitivity was not a fixed trait, but rather a biological tendency that could be managed through cognitive retraining techniques and grounding practices. By shifting her focus away from avoiding triggers and towards cultivating a sense of awareness and acceptance, she was able to reclaim her life and find freedom from the anxiety that had taken hold.
In the end, Luby's journey serves as a reminder that our experiences are not defined by labels or diagnoses, but rather by our individual responses to the world around us. By embracing our uniqueness and finding ways to manage our challenges, we can live more fully and authentically – free from the constraints of a label that was once both empowering and suffocating.
As Luby delved deeper into the world of HSPs, she began to adopt a more cautious approach to life. She read about strategies for managing sensory overload, from "environmental scans" to wearing protective gear. The idea was that by recognizing and avoiding triggers, she could minimize feelings of overwhelm and anxiety. But as time went on, Luby started to feel like she was losing herself in the process.
The more she focused on her sensitivity, the more anxious she became. She found herself perpetually rehearsing worst-case scenarios, creating a mental "cage" around herself that only served to exacerbate her stress levels. It was as if she had turned her sensitivity into a pathology, viewing every experience through the lens of potential overwhelm.
Luby's story highlights the risks of self-diagnosis and online labeling. With the internet providing an endless array of information and frameworks for understanding human experience, it can be tempting to latch onto a label that feels like a key to unlocking one's identity. But experts warn that this approach can lead to hyper-vigilance and pathological thinking.
The good news is that Luby eventually realized that her sensitivity was not a fixed trait, but rather a biological tendency that could be managed through cognitive retraining techniques and grounding practices. By shifting her focus away from avoiding triggers and towards cultivating a sense of awareness and acceptance, she was able to reclaim her life and find freedom from the anxiety that had taken hold.
In the end, Luby's journey serves as a reminder that our experiences are not defined by labels or diagnoses, but rather by our individual responses to the world around us. By embracing our uniqueness and finding ways to manage our challenges, we can live more fully and authentically – free from the constraints of a label that was once both empowering and suffocating.
I'm so over these online quizzes that promise to tell you who you are! Like, what even is this? We're still figuring out ourselves after all these years? 
And then there's this whole HSP thing... I mean, I get it, some people feel overwhelmed by certain things and need a little extra help coping. But label someone as a Highly Sensitive Person and they'll just become anxious trying to avoid every little trigger? 
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it's like people are so desperate to find their purpose or identity that they latch onto any label that feels 'valid' 
I mean don't get me wrong, being aware of our sensitivities is awesome, but when we take it too far it can be super damaging 
like miranda luby's story shows us - she was so focused on managing her anxiety that she ended up creating a whole mental 'cage' around herself 
so let's focus on building resilience & self-awareness instead of getting stuck in a cycle of avoidance and anxiety 
online quizzes and self-diagnosis aren't always the answer... Luby's story is a good reminder that we gotta take ownership of our mental health and not just seek validation from the internet 
! And yeah, labels can be both empowering and suffocating - it's all about finding balance, you know? Like, I'm not gonna label myself as 'lazy' just because I need to recharge my battery 
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. I wish someone had told me that before! 
I've seen so many people online labeling themselves as HSPs without even understanding what it means, you know? like they think it's just about avoiding loud noises or something, but it's way deeper than that.
. I mean, we're all complex people with multiple emotions and experiences, can't just reduce ourselves to one label.
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i guess that's what being a HSP is all about - finding ways to chill in a world that's often overwhelming 
. We need to find that balance where we acknowledge our sensitivities but also don't let them control us 
! She got so caught up in trying to avoid triggers that she forgot how to live life without anxiety 
. It's wild how labels can be both liberating and suffocating at the same time 
. I think what's really important here is recognizing that sensitivity is just one part of who we are, and it doesn't define us 
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According to a study published in the Journal of Research in Personality, approximately 15% of the population identify as Highly Sensitive People 
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50% experience low anxiety
25% experience high anxiety
. By acknowledging our unique experiences and learning to manage them, we can cultivate greater self-awareness and live more fulfilling lives 
but at the same time, i'm like yeah girl, how did u even know about these online quizzes & self-diagnosis tools tho? 
️. I wish people would just focus on finding ways to live with their quirks instead of trying to change who they are 
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