When it comes to online dating, some people swear by the thrill of not knowing what's around the corner. For Alexi and Oisín, however, their Guardian blind date was more about getting to know each other in a casual setting rather than experiencing the unknown.
Their conversation began with work and travel, but as things went on, they found themselves discussing whose performance was best at Primavera, a music festival that celebrates LGBTQ+ talent. It's worth noting that some of these topics might be considered obligatory or dating/hook-up horrors in other blind dates.
The most awkward moment for Alexi came when their date got up to leave the restaurant mid-conversation, citing he wasn't feeling great. Oisín suspects it was a case of conversation running dry, which left both parties feeling somewhat flat. Despite this, their table manners remained impeccable throughout the evening.
Oisín described his partner as fun, intelligent and spontaneous in three words, reflecting on how Alexi seemed to know himself well. Meanwhile, Alexi saw Oisín as friendly, fun and perhaps tired after being jet-lagged during their taxi ride.
When asked if they'd meet again, both parties agreed that while there was a connection, it didn't quite translate into romance at the moment. Oisín gave the evening an 8 out of 10, citing good conversation but ultimately a location that wasn't ideal for them both residing miles apart in Hackney.
For those looking to take their blind dates to the next level, finding common ground and avoiding awkward silences might be key.
Their conversation began with work and travel, but as things went on, they found themselves discussing whose performance was best at Primavera, a music festival that celebrates LGBTQ+ talent. It's worth noting that some of these topics might be considered obligatory or dating/hook-up horrors in other blind dates.
The most awkward moment for Alexi came when their date got up to leave the restaurant mid-conversation, citing he wasn't feeling great. Oisín suspects it was a case of conversation running dry, which left both parties feeling somewhat flat. Despite this, their table manners remained impeccable throughout the evening.
Oisín described his partner as fun, intelligent and spontaneous in three words, reflecting on how Alexi seemed to know himself well. Meanwhile, Alexi saw Oisín as friendly, fun and perhaps tired after being jet-lagged during their taxi ride.
When asked if they'd meet again, both parties agreed that while there was a connection, it didn't quite translate into romance at the moment. Oisín gave the evening an 8 out of 10, citing good conversation but ultimately a location that wasn't ideal for them both residing miles apart in Hackney.
For those looking to take their blind dates to the next level, finding common ground and avoiding awkward silences might be key.
I think they're spot on about finding common ground. It's like, you don't want to be talking about the same old things that'll just put everyone at ease, but not really say anything new. 
For me, it's always been about the little quirks and interests that you can bond over - my kids are always having those deep conversations about anime or video games with their friends... 
. and omg the music festival convo was a great way to break the ice 
. but yeah finding common ground is def key especially if you're not sure how things are gonna go down 
. mile apart in hackney tho lmao that's like, so not ideal for dates 
. But for me, knowing some info about my date beforehand (like where we live and stuff) makes me feel way more at ease 
Maybe they just need to try somewhere that's not too far away from each other? 
they're just trying to cash in on our vulnerability lol. anyone who thinks it's okay to ghost someone after 20 minutes is seriously messed up 
anyway, seems like they both had decent conversation skills, but location is everything 
, but in real life, it's all just... awkward 
. Like what if there's no chemistry at all? Or even worse, what if you're both just being polite because you don't want to hurt each other's feelings? 
I guess some people are more into that whole "keeping it casual" vibe though, and honestly, if that's your thing, go for it 
. Just maybe make sure there's a good escape plan 
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. I guess for Alexi and Oisín, it was more about the conversation than the location, kinda like when you're trying to order food online and they keep asking if you want fries 
. Anyway, who needs a perfect score when you can have good vibes? 
It's all about finding that chill connection with someone, you know? Alexi and Oisín's conversation was super relaxed, and they actually seemed to enjoy each other's company. The music festival topic was a nice touch - who doesn't love talking about great live performances? 
I mean, who doesn't love a good conversation about music festivals? Primavera is like the LGBTQ+ equivalent of Coachella, but less likely to make you dance on tables 
. Seriously though, it's all about finding those awkward silences and turning them into awkward laughs 
. but hey, good conversation = good blind date? maybe? anyway, 8/10 isn't bad, i guess. for me, it's all about finding ppl who actually share your values and interests 
! The fact that they discussed Primavera and music festivals shows they're both passionate about the same things. Alexi got Oisín right, btw - he seems like someone who's always on the go 
! As for Oisín thinking Alexi is tired, I'm not surprised - jet lag can be a real mood killer