I can't afford to save both twins': Sudan's war left one mother with an impossible choice

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The devastating effects of war in Sudan have left one mother, Touma, with an impossible choice: sacrifice her dying daughter or risk her own life to save her twin brother. The 25-year-old has been forced to flee her home after fighting between the Sudanese army and the paramilitary Rapid Support Forces (RSF) reached their community about 200km south-west of Khartoum.

Touma's situation is all too common in the war-torn country, where three million children under the age of five are acutely malnourished. The hospitals that remain operational are overwhelmed, and many families can only afford basic treatment for their children.

In a particularly heartbreaking scene, Touma sits with her dying daughter, Masajed, in Bashaer Hospital's malnutrition ward. She looks stunned as she recounts the loss of their old life: "In the past, our house was full of goodness... but now we have nothing." The mother's eyes are glassy as she stares at her daughter, who lies motionless and severely malnourished in front of her.

The situation is made even more difficult by the fact that the lifesaving medicines needed to treat the children must be paid for by their families. Touma was forced to make an impossible choice: save one twin or risk losing both. She chose Masajed, but not without immense emotional pain and grief.

As Zaher, a 12-year-old boy who survived an attack on his family's home, reveals, "I'm coming home... I can no longer see my home. Where's my home?" The memory of what happened to him is too difficult for him to talk about, but he dreams of prosthetic legs and playing football with his friends again.

The destruction of schools has put the future of children in Sudan in jeopardy. Many have lost contact with their family members, and some families are left without any means of income or food. In a makeshift classroom set up by volunteers, Zaher and his classmates attempt to learn and play despite the trauma they've endured.

As Abdulrahman Abutaleb, Abdalrahman Altayeb, and Liam Weir report from Sudan, it's clear that the humanitarian crisis there is dire. The BBC has been covering the conflict in Sudan, providing a voice for those affected by this devastating war.
 
.. this war in Sudan is just heartbreaking πŸ˜”. I mean, can you even imagine having to choose between saving one of your twins or risking your own life? It's like something out of a nightmare 🀯. And these poor kids are already struggling with malnutrition and now they're losing their homes and schools... it's just devastating.

I'm thinking about Zaher, that 12-year-old who survived an attack on his family's home. He's only 12! He should be playing football with his friends, not dreaming of prosthetic legs πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ. And the fact that he can't even talk about what happened to him is just heartbreaking.

I'm so glad that there are people like Abdulrahman Abutaleb and Liam Weir reporting on this story, giving a voice to those who need it most. It's not often that we get to hear from people like Zaher and Touma, and I think it's so important that their stories are being told.

I'm just... I don't know what else to say. This war is just such a tragedy πŸ€•.
 
Ugh, I don't think we should be sending aid to Sudan right now πŸ€”. I mean, think about it, every time we send help, it just makes things worse. The politicians just use it as an excuse to keep the conflict going and more innocent lives are lost. We need to stop fueling their desperation and let them figure out their own problems for once. And what's with all this focus on children? Can't they see that adults are the ones who should be taking responsibility here? πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ The kids are just pawns in a much bigger game...
 
🌟 My heart is heavy just reading about all these innocent kids suffering because of war πŸ€•. It makes me wonder what we can do to help. I mean, these families are already struggling and now they have to pay for medicine? That's just not right πŸ˜”. We need to think of ways to raise funds and get these kids the treatment they need ASAP πŸ’Έ.

And it's so sad that schools are being destroyed... those kids deserve a chance at an education πŸ“š. I wish there was something we could do from afar to make things better, but every little bit helps, right? Maybe we can start by supporting organizations that are already doing amazing work in Sudan 🌟. We can't just sit back and watch this happen... we need to take action πŸ’ͺ.
 
I just can't believe what's happening in Sudan πŸ€•. It's heartbreaking to see these families struggling to survive amidst all the chaos and destruction. The fact that they have to choose between saving one twin or risking losing both is just too much to handle 😩. And to think that many children are being denied access to basic treatment due to the cost, it's just devastating 🀯.

As a tech enthusiast, I'm always on the lookout for innovative solutions to help bridge this gap. Have you guys heard about the new AI-powered telemedicine platform that's being launched? It could potentially revolutionize healthcare services in war-torn countries like Sudan πŸ“Š. The idea of remote consultations and access to affordable medicine is truly game-changing πŸ’».

We need more people like the volunteers who set up makeshift classrooms for kids like Zaher to learn and play. They're the real heroes here! πŸ™ Let's keep spreading awareness about this crisis and support organizations that are working tirelessly to provide aid to those in need ❀️.
 
🌟 ugh i feel so bad for this mom, touma, she gotta make such a heartbreaking choice... but at least her son is alive πŸ™ and he's got volunteers lookin out for him, that's a blessin' right there πŸ€— what really gets me tho is all the kids goin thru this & no one's talkin about 'em like zahir, just tryna stay positive & find a way 2 play football again πŸ€ i think its so important 4 us 2 remember these kiddos exist even wen it feels like the whole world's fallin apart πŸ’–
 
This is like so heartbreaking πŸ€•... how can one human be expected to make decisions like that? I mean, what if she had an extra life left over or something? πŸ™…β€β™€οΈ It's like, the Sudanese government needs to step in and provide some serious help ASAP. Like, we're talking food, shelter, medical care... everything. And can't they do something about those meds? Families should be able to get them without having to make impossible choices like that. And what about those kids who don't have families anymore? They deserve a future too πŸ’”
 
πŸ€• my heart is literally breaking thinking about Touma and her family going through this unimaginable pain... it's like, what's happening to our world that we can't even save our own children? πŸŒŽπŸ’” the thought of those kids in malnutrition wards and hospitals with no medicine for them is just heartbreaking. I wish there was a way to get those lifesaving meds to everyone who needs them ASAP! πŸ’‰πŸš‘

and what about all these families who have lost their homes? where are they supposed to go? it's like, our world is literally falling apart right now... πŸŒͺ️😩
 
I'm still trying to wrap my head around the stories coming out of Sudan... it's like, what even is war? It's not just about guns and bombs, it's about innocent people losing their homes, their families, their sense of security... πŸ˜” And these kids, oh man, they're the worst part. I mean, Zaher's story is heartbreaking - a 12-year-old boy who can barely remember his home because of what happened to him. It makes me want to cry just thinking about it.

And then there's Touma and her daughter Masajed... that's like something out of a nightmare. I don't know how people do it, you know? How they have to make impossible choices between their own lives and the life of someone else. It's just not right.

We need to be doing more, you know? We can't just sit here and watch these kids suffer. They deserve better than what's happening in Sudan... we all do. πŸ€—
 
can't believe what's happening in sudan 🀯 3 million kids under 5 are severely malnourished & hospitals r overwhelmed #SudanWar #HumanitarianCrisis. gotta feel 4 touma's pain, choosin between savin her last breath or riskin her own life 2 save her twin bro #SaveTheChildren. & what's even harder is that lifesavin meds need 2 b paid by fams who can barely afford basic treatment 2 their kids πŸ€• #SudanDeservesBetter.

schools r gettin destroyed, futures of kids r in jeopardy πŸ“šπŸ‘¦. it's heartbreaking 2 think abt zaher & his classmates tryin 2 learn & play despite all they've gone thru 🀞. we gotta do more 2 help them 2 heal & rebuild their lives #SudanSupport. humanitarian crises r devastating but we cn make a diff 🌟
 
πŸ€• the most heartbreaking thing here is how we can just sit back and watch as these innocent kids suffer 🀯 touma's situation is just awful, i mean what kinda person has to make a choice between saving their own kid or their other twin? and its not like they had any other option, they got forced out of their home 🏠 it just goes to show how messed up war is and how we need more support for these people 🀝
 
Man this situation in Sudan is just heartbreaking... like what do you even do when your options are literally between saving one child and risking the life of another? 🀯 It's so messed up that these families have to make impossible choices because there aren't enough resources to go around. And on top of all that, kids who've already been traumatized by war just want to get back to normal and play football or learn in a classroom... it's like they're being robbed of their childhoods πŸ€• The stats are crazy too - 3 million under five are malnourished? That's insane! What's even more alarming is that the families have to pay for lifesaving meds themselves, so they're basically choosing between saving one child and putting another's life at risk. It's just devastating to think about all these lives being put on hold by this conflict πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
 
omg this is so sad 🀯 i cant even handle thinking about touma having to choose between saving her own life or her dying daughter it's like my heart is literally breaking for her πŸ’” she's just trying to protect her twin brother but then again how can u live without one of ur children?? 😭 and the fact that those lifesaving medicines gotta be paid by their families is just cruel πŸ€‘ like whats the point of all this war anyway? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ it's making life for kids in sudan so hard... they're losing everything - homes, schools, hope 🌫️ i'm literally sending all my positive vibes to touma and her family πŸ‘
 
πŸ€•πŸ˜” this is so sad i cant even imagine having to make that choice as a mom u gotta feel her pain she chose to save one but not knowing what happened 2 the other is just heartbreaking πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ 3 mill kids r affected its like the whole country is suffering and its not just about the war its about the ppl who lost everythin they had homes destroyed schools shut down no food no money u can feel the despair from these pics its not just a humanitarian crisis its a human tragedy 😭
 
omg this situation with touma and her family is literally heartbreaking 😭 they're forced to make impossible choices because of the war and it's just so unfair. like what kind of world do we live in where families have to choose between saving one child or risking both? 🀯 it's not like Touma wanted to lose either of them, she was just trying to survive and make ends meet.

and zoaher's story is so sad too... a 12yo boy who survived an attack but can't even see his home anymore πŸ˜” he needs prosthetic legs and just wants to play football with his friends again. it's like the war took everything away from him.

the fact that schools are destroyed and kids are losing their contact with family members is just devastating πŸ€• what about their future? won't they ever be able to live normal lives?

we need to do something about this 🚨 we can't just sit back and watch these families suffer. we need more help, more attention, and more action to stop this war and bring peace to sudan πŸ’–
 
I don’t usually comment but I just can't help thinking about all these poor kids... πŸ€• three million under 5 are literally starving and no hospital can afford to give them proper treatment... it's like, what even is the point of having a military if you're just gonna leave your own people to suffer? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ I mean, I know war is complicated but it feels like we're not doing enough to help these families. Those pictures of the kids in the malnutrition ward are literally heart-wrenching... how can we expect them to recover from all this trauma? And what's up with the fact that they gotta pay for life-saving meds themselves? It's just so messed up 🀯
 
πŸ€• This war is taking such a toll on innocent people like Touma and her family. It's heartbreaking to think about having to choose between saving one child or risking your own life to save another πŸ™. The situation is indeed dire, with 3 million children under 5 years old suffering from malnutrition and the hospitals being overwhelmed. It's a tough spot for families like Touma's who are struggling to make ends meet. The fact that they have to pay for lifesaving medicine out of their own pockets just adds to the tragedy 🀒. We need to do more to support these families and help them rebuild their lives after this war is over πŸ’•.
 
πŸ€• I'm literally shook thinking about Touma and her family situation... it's like, what even is this? 🀯 Three million kids malnourished, and hospitals are overwhelmed... how are families supposed to cope with that? πŸ’” And the fact that they have to pay for meds themselves? It's just heartbreaking. πŸ˜“ I'm so sorry Masajed passed away. πŸ’€

And Zaher's situation is just devastating... a 12-year-old boy wants prosthetic legs and football, but all he can think about is what happened to his family πŸ€•. And the schools getting destroyed? Forget about it, kids' future is literally being erased. 😭 This war has to stop ASAP.

We need to do better for people like Touma, Zaher, and their families. We have to support these countries in any way we can. πŸ’ͺ It's time for us to take action and make some noise about this crisis. πŸ—£οΈ
 
πŸ€• this breaks my heart she had to make such a choice can't we just have peace and stability in the world so ppl don't have to go thru this 🌎 u know sometimes i wonder what it'd be like if everyone just came together and helped each other out rather than fighting over stuff that doesn't even matter anymore πŸ’”
 
its so heartbreaking to see the future of these kids being literally torn apart by war πŸ€•. i mean, can you even imagine having to choose between saving one twin or risking both? its not just emotional pain, its a literal fight for survival πŸ’”. and its not just the family thats affected, entire communities are being destroyed. schools, homes, everything is getting destroyed. its like, what even is left to hold onto? 🀯
 
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