The Age-Old Cinema Conundrum: To Whisper or to Shout?
For many of us, going to the cinema is a special occasion, a chance to escape into a world of sound and colour. But when it comes to conversing with fellow moviegoers during trailers – that 10-minute buffer between films before the main event – opinions are sharply divided.
While some people believe that chatting during trailers is an acceptable indulgence, others argue that it's a no-go. The latter camp cites the obvious: you wouldn't want someone disturbing your viewing experience and potentially ruining the magic of the film itself. This line of thinking suggests that once the main feature begins, all conversation should cease, with some even advocating for complete silence to respect the cinematic experience.
But what about those who think streaming movies at home has desensitized us to social norms? That we've become a nation of rowdy, unapologetic talkers who just can't help ourselves in crowded spaces? For these individuals, the cinema is a rare opportunity to engage with others face-to-face – even if it's just about something as mundane as the trailers.
Personally, I fall somewhere in between. If everyone around me stops chatting during the film, I'm happy to keep on going – after all, you can always catch up on those trailer ads and clips when you get home. But there are a few caveats: if you're the only one being loud or rowdy, it's probably best to pipe down before you become an embarrassment to yourself.
I recall a particularly cringe-worthy incident from years ago when I was watching a film with friends. Behind me, someone started ringing their phone – full-blast – during a pivotal scene. The ensuing conversation that followed was lengthy and loud enough to make everyone around us cringe. Needless to say, it was not exactly the highlight of my cinematic experience.
However, as far as those who were caught on the receiving end of this verbal barrage are concerned, apparently, there was no earth-shattering plot twist at play – just a couple having an everyday chat that had nothing to do with me or my movie-watching experience. Who knew that a lengthy conversation about, ahem, mundane topics could be so jarringly loud?
Ultimately, it's up to each individual to decide how they want to engage in their cinematic experience. But when it comes down to it, common courtesy and respect for those around us can go a long way – even if it means just holding our tongues (or at least whispering softly) during the trailers.
For many of us, going to the cinema is a special occasion, a chance to escape into a world of sound and colour. But when it comes to conversing with fellow moviegoers during trailers – that 10-minute buffer between films before the main event – opinions are sharply divided.
While some people believe that chatting during trailers is an acceptable indulgence, others argue that it's a no-go. The latter camp cites the obvious: you wouldn't want someone disturbing your viewing experience and potentially ruining the magic of the film itself. This line of thinking suggests that once the main feature begins, all conversation should cease, with some even advocating for complete silence to respect the cinematic experience.
But what about those who think streaming movies at home has desensitized us to social norms? That we've become a nation of rowdy, unapologetic talkers who just can't help ourselves in crowded spaces? For these individuals, the cinema is a rare opportunity to engage with others face-to-face – even if it's just about something as mundane as the trailers.
Personally, I fall somewhere in between. If everyone around me stops chatting during the film, I'm happy to keep on going – after all, you can always catch up on those trailer ads and clips when you get home. But there are a few caveats: if you're the only one being loud or rowdy, it's probably best to pipe down before you become an embarrassment to yourself.
I recall a particularly cringe-worthy incident from years ago when I was watching a film with friends. Behind me, someone started ringing their phone – full-blast – during a pivotal scene. The ensuing conversation that followed was lengthy and loud enough to make everyone around us cringe. Needless to say, it was not exactly the highlight of my cinematic experience.
However, as far as those who were caught on the receiving end of this verbal barrage are concerned, apparently, there was no earth-shattering plot twist at play – just a couple having an everyday chat that had nothing to do with me or my movie-watching experience. Who knew that a lengthy conversation about, ahem, mundane topics could be so jarringly loud?
Ultimately, it's up to each individual to decide how they want to engage in their cinematic experience. But when it comes down to it, common courtesy and respect for those around us can go a long way – even if it means just holding our tongues (or at least whispering softly) during the trailers.
. I mean, who doesn't love catching up on gossip or talking about the trailer clips when you get home? But if someone's just being obnoxiously loud and ruining it for everyone else, then yeah, maybe keep it down a notch 
. And can we please all agree to not be like that guy who rings his phone during a movie? 
That's just low 
. I think the key is finding a happy medium – chatting softly and not being a total attention-seeker 
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. Some people are really invested in their movies and want to discuss them with others, while others might be trying to fully immerse themselves in the film itself 
. I mean, can you imagine having a deep convo about the plot when you're actually meant to be watching a superhero movie action scene? 
. You don't want to be that person who ruins everyone else's experience. That said, I do think some people might get too caught up in their own social norms and forget about others around them 
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. If you're gonna chat during trailers, at least make sure it's not too loud or distracting 
. And if someone is being obnoxious, politely ask them to keep it down 
. Easy peasy!
cinemas are so much nicer nowadays with all the comfy seats and fancy food 
but you know what's still not changed? how annoying it is to be around loud people 
when there's a movie playing... sometimes i feel like people forget that they're in a crowded space where others might want to watch the film in peace 
i recall going to see a rom-com with friends and one of them was literally screaming about how much they loved the lead actor 
it was so embarrassing for everyone else around us 
just a gentle whisper during the trailers would be nice, you know? 
. If everyone around you is being chill and watching the trailers in peace, you can be like "okay, now I'll catch up on those trailer ads at home" 
. But if someone's being extra loud or rowdy, it's only polite to pipe down and not ruin the vibes for others 
. It's all about being respectful and considerate of those around you in a crowded space 
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. and u know what's worse? when u try to shh them but they just keep on talking lol. my fave is when someone rings their phone in public during a movie... what r they even thinking? 
. i guess u gotta find that balance tho, not be super quiet but also not be that annoying loudmouth 
. It's just one movie trailer, it's not a party 
. And honestly, I feel for people who want to chat during trailers because they've been desensitized to social norms by streaming at home 
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I mean, yeah, we've become desensitized to noise from streaming and social media, but that doesn't excuse blasting someone's voice during a film 
And can you believe that person ringing their phone full-blast during a pivotal scene?!?! That was literally the worst part of my movie experience 
I mean, come on! Can't we all just chill during the trailers? 
- there are other people around them! But at the same time, I get where those who want complete silence during films are coming from... it's all about finding that balance, right? 
. I mean, we can catch up on all that extra info when we get home after the movie is over 
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). honestly tho, if you're gonna ring your phone during a movie, just own it and tell everyone around you that you're having a convo with bae 
