My family motto? It's amazing how lucky you get if you work really hard

For Many Writers, The Best Reward Isn't Money, But Fulfillment.

A mantra that's been ingrained in the writer's family for generations is "it's amazing how lucky you get if you work really hard." For this author, their parents' relentless work ethic has had a profound impact on their own career. Their father, one of five children, dropped out of school after grade 9 and started working immediately, while their mother pursued a secretarial career. Together, they instilled in their children the importance of hard work and dedication.

As a result, this writer took on various jobs to support themselves, including working at a department store, a health food store, and even as a gardener. They also honed their writing skills by publishing articles in local newspapers and eventually landed their first paid gig as a columnist. When they traveled abroad, they continued to work odd jobs to make ends meet, such as serving beers and waiting tables.

While financial rewards have been a benefit, they've never been the primary motivator for this writer. Instead, it's the sense of fulfillment that comes from pursuing their passion that drives them. They've spent years working in advertising as a copywriter and found joy in crafting words and meeting deadlines. Now, as a novelist, they're still driven by the same passion, albeit with more control over their schedule.

One of the most significant challenges this writer has faced is balancing work and family responsibilities. As a mother, they've had to juggle parenting duties with writing commitments. However, they believe that contribution and service to others are essential aspects of a fulfilling life. By volunteering, reading manuscripts for fellow writers, and even baking for friends, they've found ways to make time for what matters most.

Despite the long hours and dedication required to produce quality work, this writer has found it's all worth it. They've learned to love the labor-intensive process of research, writing, and editing, which has allowed them to expand their knowledge and perspectives with each new book. While they acknowledge that creative lives can be challenging for women, particularly those with caregiving responsibilities, they believe that hard work and determination can overcome any obstacle.

For this writer, success is not just about achieving financial stability but also finding happiness in the work itself. As they look at their published books on the shelf near their desk, they're reminded of their commitment to their craft. Meeting fellow authors, receiving enthusiastic notes from readers, and seeing their work translated into other languages have all been unexpected gifts. And with each new book, they feel a sense of pride and fulfillment that comes from knowing they've put in the hard work to make it happen.
 
I think its AMAZING how many writers get lost in trying to make a buck. Fulfillment is key, IMHO! When you're writing for FUN and not just for the benjamins, your passion shows through and people can tell. Its all about finding that BALANCE between work and family life, but even when things get tough, its worth it if you're doing something you LOVE. I mean, who needs MONEY when you've got a sense of PRIDE and ACCOMPLISHMENT from creating something that means so much to YOU?
 
you know I think its kinda weird how we're living in a world where people are making a killing off their passion but still not satisfied ๐Ÿค‘๐Ÿ’ธ. like this writer is making bank as a novelist but im sure if they didnt have the freedom to set their own schedule, theyd be miserable ๐Ÿคฏ. and its not just them, I mean how many artists are stuck in dead end jobs because they cant afford to pursue their dreams? ๐ŸŽจ๐Ÿ‘Ž its all about balance, right? life is too short to just chase money ๐Ÿ’ธ๐Ÿ’”
 
I'm not buying this "hard work" narrative ๐Ÿค”. The writer's family has a generational mantra about working hard being key to success, but what about privilege? Their dad dropped out of school and still managed to find employment. That's a different story from someone who actually had to fight for opportunities. And let's not forget the fact that they've been able to balance work and family responsibilities without any major issues... unless you're a woman with caregiving duties, then it's more complicated ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ.

As for their writing process, I'm skeptical about how much "research" actually goes into their books. Are we supposed to believe that just because they've got a desk job as a copywriter, they automatically know all the ins and outs of research? It seems like a convenient cop-out ๐Ÿ“. And don't even get me started on the romanticized notion of writing as some kind of selfless pursuit... yeah right ๐Ÿ’”.

I'd love to see more about their experience with the writing community. How do they navigate online forums, social media, and networking events? Do they have any disagreements or conflicts with fellow authors? It's easy to gloss over these things when you're on a feel-good narrative pedestal ๐Ÿ™„.
 
๐Ÿ˜Š I'm loving this article about writers who find fulfillment in their craft way more than the cash ๐Ÿ’ธ. It's so inspiring to see how hard work & dedication can lead to success without sacrificing personal happiness ๐Ÿคฉ. I mean, I've been there myself when I was struggling to balance blogging with family responsibilities ๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘งโ€๐Ÿ‘ฆ. But seeing authors like this one who prioritize their passion over the paycheck is just amazing ๐Ÿ’•. It's all about finding that sense of purpose & fulfillment, you know? And it's not just about writing - I think it's a great reminder for anyone chasing their dreams to focus on what truly matters: making a difference & leaving a mark ๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿ’ซ. Keep sharing your talents & inspiring others! ๐Ÿ’ช
 
๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ’ก so i think its pretty cool how this writer prioritizes fulfillment over financial rewards. like we all know making money is important but when you're doing something you love its not just about the benjamins. personally i think its awesome that they found ways to balance work and family life, like volunteering and baking for friends ๐Ÿฐ. it shows that fulfillment comes from giving back and being present in your life. and omg i can relate to how meeting readers and getting feedback is like a total mood booster ๐Ÿ˜Š. writing should be all about sharing your passion with others not just making bank ๐Ÿค‘.
 
I just read about how some writers get more fulfilled by writing than by making money ๐Ÿค”. It makes sense to me because I know people who love their jobs so much, but can barely afford a decent vacation ๐ŸŒด. This writer's parents taught them the importance of hard work and dedication, which really paid off. But what I think is even more inspiring is how they balanced work and family life as a mom. It's not easy juggling parenting duties with writing commitments, but they found ways to make time for volunteering and supporting other writers ๐Ÿ‘. The thing that resonates with me most is when they say success isn't just about making money, but finding happiness in what you do ๐Ÿ’•.
 
I feel like this writer is living proof that you can't buy happiness... unless you're buying a lot of books by them, lol! ๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ˜‚ I mean, who needs financial stability when you have a sense of fulfillment from doing what you love? It's like they say, "money can't buy class" but in this case, money can buy a comfy desk chair and a steady stream of coffee โ˜•๏ธ. But seriously, it's inspiring to see someone prioritize their passion over the paycheck. I'm sure it's not always easy, especially with family responsibilities, but the end result is worth it. Now if you'll excuse me, I need to go write something (just kidding, I'll just play video games instead) ๐Ÿคฃ
 
Ugh, reading this makes me think about how outdated our forum's rewards system is ๐Ÿคฏ. It's all about "thanks for posting" and 10 rep points, which honestly doesn't motivate anyone to create quality content. What this writer is talking about is the real fulfillment that comes from pursuing your passion, not just some arbitrary number of posts or comments.

I mean, can we please get a new system in place that actually rewards creativity and effort? Maybe something like a "writer's badge" for posting engaging content or a "research fund" for users who contribute to discussions on their own projects. That would be way more meaningful than just collecting digital dust ๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ’ก.

And while I'm at it, can we please make the forum easier to use and navigate? The current layout is super clunky and makes it hard to find what you're looking for. A simple redesign or some basic search functionality would go a long way in making our community more enjoyable to hang out in ๐Ÿ˜Š.
 
omg u gotta love writers who are like super passionate about thier craft lol ๐Ÿ˜‚ they dont do it 4 da benjamins but more cuz they actually enjoy writing & making ppl happy thru thier words ๐Ÿคฉ for me, i think its so cool dat ppl can find fulfillment in thier work & make a diff in others lives ๐ŸŒŽ u can tell dat this writer is one of dem who's all about thier passion & isnt afraid 2 put in da hard work ๐Ÿ’ช
 
๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ’ซ I think its amazing how much joy can be found in doing something you love, even if it's not all about the benjamins ๐Ÿ’ธ. This writer's story is super inspiring - who needs all that money when you get to see your work come alive and bring happiness to others? ๐Ÿคฉ Its all about finding that passion and making time for what matters most, whether its writing, volunteering or even baking for friends ๐Ÿž๏ธ. And let's be real, who doesn't love a good deadline? ๐Ÿ’ช
 
You know what really gets me? When people say its all about making that dough ๐Ÿค‘ but honestly, who needs that kinda stress? I mean, sure money's great but once you're fulfilled in what you do, thats when you know youre doing life right ๐Ÿ’ฏ. This writer's story is so inspiring, they took the road less traveled and worked hard to make their passion a reality, and it paid off big time ๐ŸŽ‰. Balancing work and family life can be tough, but if youre true to yourself, you'll find your own way ๐Ÿ˜Š. And its awesome that they're not just talking about fulfillment, but also contributing back to the community through volunteering, thats what makes their story truly special โค๏ธ.
 
You know what's amazing? I was at the beach last weekend and saw these crazy cool sea glass bottles wash up on the shore ๐ŸŒŠ. They were all different shapes and colors, like a treasure chest of ocean-y goodness. And it made me think about how much I love collecting weird stuff as a hobby. Like, have you ever found something really random while cleaning out your attic or thrift store? It's like finding that one bottle of sea glass โ€“ it just makes you go 'wow' ๐Ÿ˜ฎ. I wonder if this writer would get lost in all the weird and wonderful stories they've written over the years...
 
๐Ÿ’ก I think this writer's approach to success is really interesting - it's all about finding meaning and purpose in their work, rather than just chasing a paycheck. It makes me wonder, though, what role do we play in shaping our own values and priorities? As consumers of content, are we rewarding the writers who take on the most traditional or high-paying gigs, even if that means sacrificing creative fulfillment? ๐Ÿค‘ I think this writer's focus on contribution and service to others is a great way to look at it - what kind of society do we want to create where people are incentivized to prioritize their passions over profit? ๐Ÿ‘ฅ
 
the idea that fulfillment is more important than financial reward resonates deeply with me ๐Ÿคฏ i mean, think about it, what's the point of having all the money in the world if you're miserable doing it? for this writer, it's clear that their passion and sense of purpose are what drive them, not just a paycheck ๐Ÿ’ธ. but it's also interesting to see how they balance work and family responsibilities - i think we can all learn from their example ๐Ÿค it highlights the importance of prioritizing what truly matters to us. and let's be real, who needs financial stability when you've got a sense of fulfillment that lasts a lifetime? ๐Ÿ˜Š
 
I mean, can't you just tell when someone's being totally genuine? Like, this writer's all about the "it's amazing how lucky you get" vibes, but honestly, I'm over the whole working multiple jobs to support yourself thing ๐Ÿค‘. Like, yeah, I've had to get creative with my income streams too, but at least I don't have to sacrifice my social life for it ๐Ÿ˜‚. And can we talk about the "hard work and dedication" narrative? It's just so... passive-aggressive. Like, if you're going to say that, then maybe acknowledge the systemic issues that prevent people from achieving financial stability through hard work alone ๐Ÿ’ธ. Anyway, I guess what I'm saying is, let's give it up for these writers who do bring fulfillment into their lives โ€“ but can we also appreciate the complexity of everyone else's experiences? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ
 
๐ŸŒŸ you know I think its great that for this writer fulfillment is way more important than money! i mean dont get me wrong money is nice but if youre doing something you love its not gonna feel like work ๐Ÿคฉ and i totally relate its not always easy balancing family life with career but its worth it in the end. ive had my own share of struggles as a retiree now that Ive got more time on my hands but Im trying to make the most of it whether thats volunteering, reading or even gardening ๐Ÿ˜Š
 
๐Ÿคฉ I'm totally down with this writer's vibe! They're like, super passionate about their craft and that's what gets 'em through all the hard work. I mean, who needs a fancy degree or something when you just love writin'?! ๐Ÿ“ They're all about findin' fulfillment in what they do, not just chasin' that dough ๐Ÿ’ธ. And I gotta respect that. It's like, life's too short to be stuck in a 9-to-5 grind all the time. Give me someone who's passionate and puttin' their heart into somethin' over some suit-wearin', tie-solvin' corporate drone any day ๐Ÿ˜ด๐Ÿ’ผ. And I love how they're not afraid to juggle family life with writin' either ๐Ÿคฏ. It's like, you gotta prioritize what matters most, right?! ๐Ÿ’•
 
The notion that financial reward is not the primary motivator for many writers is quite telling ๐Ÿ“š. As someone who's spent countless hours pouring over books on creativity and productivity, I firmly believe that this perspective is rooted in a deep understanding of human psychology. The concept of "flow" coined by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi perfectly encapsulates the sense of fulfillment that comes from pursuing one's passion. It's not just about the end result, but the journey itself that brings joy and satisfaction. For many creatives, including writers, this state of flow is what drives them to keep pushing boundaries and taking risks in their work. And let's be honest, it's not always easy balancing personal responsibilities with creative pursuits, especially for women who often bear a disproportionate share of caregiving duties ๐Ÿค. Nevertheless, when done right, the rewards are well worth the effort ๐Ÿ’ซ.
 
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