Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

The tradition of burying our departed loved ones in a cemetery is rooted in providing survivors with an opportunity to grieve and gain closure. However, what about when the dearly departed are not human but our pets? Why do we give them such a special place to rest, separate from those of their human family members?

A new public pet cemetery is set to open in Barcelona next year, offering both burials and cremations for an estimated 7,000 pets each year. This news came as a shock to the author, who has spent years researching the history of modern pet burial practices. The development of pet cemeteries is not limited to Europe and North America; ancient civilizations such as the Egyptians and Greeks also honored their beloved animals.

Historic grave discoveries reveal that people have always found ways to cope with the loss of their pets. In the 19th century, pets were often buried in personal plots behind family homes, reflecting a deep emotional bond between humans and animals. The epitaphs on these gravestones often spoke of loving companionship and devotion.

Fast-forward to the early 20th century, and pet cemeteries began to resemble those for humans. Gravestones would frequently mention the reunion with pets in the afterlife, as seen in the Barcelona cemetery's planned epitaphs. This shift reflects changing attitudes towards animals in society.

The author believes that modern pet cemeteries will provide a safe space for grieving families to express their love and loss. However, not all may be able or willing to afford this option, with an estimated €200 per service price tag. The rise of digital pet cemeteries and online forums offers alternative ways to commemorate relationships and process grief.

Ultimately, the tradition of burying pets in a cemetery serves as a testament to the strong emotional bonds that form between humans and animals. It is a reminder that our feelings for our beloved companions are just as valid and deserving of respect as those we hold for human loved ones.
 
I gotta say, it's kinda sad that pet cemeteries are still a thing 🤕. I mean, don't get me wrong, they're probably super comforting for people who've lost their furry friends, but €200 is like, a lot of money 💸. And what about all the people who can't afford it? Don't they deserve some sort of memorial too?

I think it's awesome that there are pet cemeteries popping up everywhere though 🌎. It just shows how much humans care about their pets, and that's something to celebrate 🐾❤️. And I love the idea of these new digital pet cemeteries - maybe we can create our own online memorials for our beloved pets without breaking the bank 💻.

Anyway, it's cool that people are still looking for ways to honor their pets after they're gone 😊. It just goes to show how strong those emotional bonds are between us and our furry friends 🐶💕.
 
I think it's so cool 😊 that pet cemeteries are becoming more popular 🌱. People want to honor their furry friends 💕 in a special way after they pass away 💀. I've lost my own pets, and it's hard to let them go 🐾😢. But having a dedicated space for pets to rest is really thoughtful ❤️. I wish we could afford it 💸. Digital cemeteries are an idea too 🤔, but there's something special about holding your pet's ashes in your hands ✨.
 
I'm all about giving pets the same love & respect as humans 🐾❤️, you know? These pet cemeteries in Europe & elsewhere are getting a thumbs up from me - it's like they're saying "we get it, you're part of the fam too" 😊. I mean, who doesn't want to remember their pup or kitty by some beautiful garden with a headstone that says "beloved companion"? 🌺 Those historic graves in Europe are giving me all the feels... it's like they were saying goodbye to their furry friends for centuries before we did! 💔 And yeah, it's not gonna be cheap (€200 is steep), but some people might wanna splurge on a special spot to remember their pets by. Meanwhile, I'm all about those digital pet cemeteries too - online forums & whatnot can be super helpful if you're struggling with the loss 💻. All in all, I think these pet cemeteries are a great way for humans to acknowledge how much love we have for our furry friends 🐾💕
 
I mean, think about it... 🤔 If we're gonna give pets such a special spot in the afterlife, why not make it easier on families who want to say goodbye? €200 is pretty steep, you know? I'd love to see some options for smaller services or even DIY pet burials 🏠💀. Digital cemeteries are cool and all, but there's something about being able to lay a flower or leave a personal item on a grave that just can't be replicated online 💐📸. Not to mention, I've had friends who lost pets in the park and it would've been super nice if they could've just... you know... scattered some ashes or whatever 🌳💔.
 
aww 🐾❤️... it's beautiful to see how much love and care people have for their furry friends. I can imagine how hard it must be to lose a pet, but having a special place to say goodbye is really important. 💔 It's like they're still with us in spirit, you know? 😊 And yeah, €200 might be pricey, but for those who can afford it, it's like an investment in their memories and feelings... a way to honor their loved ones 🙏💫
 
I think it's really beautiful how we're starting to give pets the same kind of respect and closure that we give to our human family members. I mean, these animals bring so much love and joy into our lives, and when they pass away, it's like losing a member of the fam 🐾💔. The fact that modern pet cemeteries are becoming more popular shows that people are realizing this too. Of course, not everyone can afford it, which is a bummer 🤑, but I think these alternatives, like digital pet cemeteries and online forums, are great options for those who can't or don't want to use traditional services.

I also love how the history of pet burial practices shows that this isn't just some new trend – people have been finding ways to cope with pet loss for centuries 🤯. It's so cool to see how our attitudes towards animals have changed over time, and how we're starting to recognize their emotional value too 💖.
 
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