Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

The decision to bury our beloved pets is often met with surprise, especially when considering that we don't provide similar rites for human loved ones. What's fascinating is that this cultural practice has evolved over time, reflecting changing attitudes towards human-animal relationships.

Historically, pet cemeteries have been around in Europe and the Americas since the late 19th century. For instance, Britain's first public pet cemetery appeared in London's Hyde Park in 1881. New York's Hartsdale pet cemetery was founded in 1896, followed by Paris' Cimetière des Chiens in 1899.

Researching historic graves and epitaphs has shown that the way we treat our animal dead mirrors our relationships with them. In the Victorian era, pets were considered loving friends, as evidenced by gravestones that read "loving friend" or "devoted companion." By the early 20th century, however, family surnames began to appear on graves, indicating a shift towards viewing pets as integral members of the family.

This evolution is reflected in modern pet cemeteries, such as the one set to open in Barcelona next year. The city has recently announced plans to invest in its first public pet cemetery, offering both burials and cremations for an estimated 7,000 animals per year. For Eric Tourigny, a lecturer in historical archaeology, this development comes as a surprise, given that many cities with high pet populations have yet to establish such facilities.

This new development raises questions about the changing attitudes towards human-animal relationships in the afterlife. Just like their human counterparts, pets can evoke strong emotions and attachment. However, societal norms often discourage public acknowledgment of these feelings, leading individuals to struggle with expressing their grief.

The emergence of charities and online platforms offering counseling and digital pet cemeteries serves as a testament to the growing acceptance of human-animal relationships. While financial accessibility remains an issue, alternative options provide individuals with alternatives for commemorating their lost pets.

Ultimately, the decision to bury our beloved animals is rooted in our complex emotional connections with them. By examining historical practices and modern developments, we can better understand the cultural significance of these rites and acknowledge the importance of acknowledging our relationships with our cherished companions.
 
I mean, think about it... people are finally starting to realize that pets aren't just furry friends, they're part of the family too 🐶💕. I'm not surprised that cities are setting up pet cemeteries - it's about time we acknowledged the emotional bond we have with our pets when they pass away 😔. It's interesting to see how attitudes towards pets in the afterlife are changing, from just being buried to now having options like cremation and online platforms for counseling 🌳💻. But let's be real, it's still about time we got some recognition for those grief feelings we always try to hide 🤐...
 
I mean, can you believe how far pet cemeteries have come? I was talking to my old grandma about this yesterday, she's like "remember when we had that one dog, Fido? He passed away in '82... I buried him in the backyard" 🐕😔. She wasn't even sure if that was what you were supposed to do with pet remains back then. Fast forward to today and cities are investing in whole public cemeteries for pets! It's crazy how our attitudes towards animals have changed, right? I mean, now we're more open about acknowledging our feelings for them... it's like, yeah, it's okay to be sad when your furry friend passes on 🐾💔. Anyway, this new pet cemetery in Barcelona sounds like a game-changer. Can't wait to visit once it opens! 💕
 
I'm so glad this conversation is happening! I think it's amazing that pet cemeteries are becoming more popular, especially in cities like Barcelona 🌴 It's crazy to think about how far we've come since the 19th century when they first started popping up. The fact that family surnames now appear on graves shows how much our relationships with pets have evolved over time ❤️ I mean, who wouldn't want a fancy grave for their furry BFF? 🤩 The rise of charities and online platforms offering counseling and digital pet cemeteries is also super heartwarming 😊 It's all about acknowledging the love we share with our pets and finding ways to honor those special bonds 💕
 
I mean, it's kinda wild that we're still figuring out how to honor our pets after they pass on 🐾💀. I think it's awesome that there are pet cemeteries popping up in cities like Barcelona - it shows that people are starting to take their emotional connections with animals seriously.

But at the same time, I'm like, 'what about when we lose a human loved one? Why can't we have a similar level of recognition and respect for our losses?' 🤔 It's all about how we perceive life, right?

I'm glad that there are charities and online platforms offering support and digital pet cemeteries - it's helping to break down some of the stigmas around grief. But I think we need to keep pushing for more accessibility and resources for people who have lost their pets.

Overall, I think this is a good sign that our attitudes towards human-animal relationships are evolving 🌱💖. It just goes to show that we're not as weird or crazy as we think we are when it comes to honoring the ones we love 💕
 
I THINK IT'S AMAZING THAT WE'RE SEEING A SHIFT TOWARDS MORE PUBLICLY RECOGNIZING OUR ANIMAL FRIENDS IN THE AFTERLIFE 💕🐾! I MEAN, WE DON'T HAVE TO THINK TWICE ABOUT GETTING MOURNED WHEN SOMEONE LOSES A FAMILY MEMBER, BUT LOST PETS FEEL LIKE THEY'RE JUST "OUT OF SIGHT" 🙅‍♂️. IT'S LIKE WE'RE STARTING TO REALIZE THAT OUR ANIMALS ARE SUCH HUGE PART OF OUR LIVES, TOO! AND I LOVE THE IDEA OF THESE NEW PUBLIC PET CEMETERIES IN BARCELONA - IT'S LIKE WE'RE FINALLY GETTING TO THE HEART OF THINGS 💗
 
I mean think about it - we have this whole thing where we're so quick to say goodbye to our pets, but when it comes to humans, we put on all this drama about saying farewell... 🤔 It's like we're more comfortable with the idea of losing a friend than ourselves. It makes you wonder if that's why we don't have these public cemeteries for human loved ones - because it's harder for us to accept our own mortality? 💀 But maybe by embracing this change, we can start having more open conversations about grief and loss... and how we truly care for one another. 🌟
 
🐾 It's crazy how far our attitudes towards treating pets after they pass away have come! Back in the day, it was all about loving friends and devoted companions, but now we're starting to see family members and even individual personalities being honored. I think this shift reflects how much more integrated our lives are with animals these days - we treat them like part of the family, so when they go, it's like a big loss for us too! 🤔

I'm excited about Barcelona opening its own public pet cemetery - 7,000 animals per year is no joke! It shows that cities are starting to catch up with the emotional needs of their furry and feathered residents. And let's be real, who doesn't want a digital pet cemetery or counseling services when you're feeling down about losing your BFF? 🐾❤️
 
I think it's kinda weird that people are only now realizing the importance of giving pets a proper sendoff 🤔. Like, who didn't know they were gonna outlive their furry friends at some point? Anyway, I'm all for it though - if we're willing to give humans fancy burials and whatnot, then why not our pets too? It's all about showing respect for the animal love in our lives 💕. And honestly, can you imagine how emotional (and expensive) pet cemeteries are gonna be? Rich people gonna shell out $$$ just so their Pomeranian can have a 'fitting' burial 🤑
 
🤔 I'm totally sure that pet cemeteries are a total waste of space... I mean, who needs to bury their furry friends when they could just be cremated? 💀 And what's up with all these historic graves and epitaphs? They're just glorifying the fact that we treat our pets like disposable objects. 🤷‍♂️ On the other hand, it's also super cool that cities are starting to recognize the emotional value of pet loss... I guess. 🐾 I mean, who wouldn't want to spend their money on a fancy pet cemetery when they could just donate it to a good cause? 🙄 But hey, if people want to waste their cash on a fancy burial spot for their pets, that's their prerogative... as long as they're not getting too sentimental about it. 😒
 
I'm surprised they're finally setting up a pet cemetery in Barcelona 🤔. I mean, it's about time, right? I've lost my cat, Luna, like 5 years ago and I still think about her all the time. It's crazy how much we attach ourselves to our pets, you know? They're more than just animals, they're part of the family 💕. I wish there were more options for pet owners who can't afford a traditional cemetery. Digital pet cemeteries sound like a great alternative 🌱.
 
I think its kinda sad that we dont get a proper sendoff like humans do when our pets pass away 🐶💔 I mean, they're part of the family too, you know? 🤗 Its interesting to see how it used to be that people would even put their own names on graves but now its all about recognizing the bond between us and our pets ❤️ Im all for a proper pet cemetery in Barcelona, like who wouldn't want to pay respects to their fur babies 🐶🌼
 
I'm not sure I get the hype about building more pet cemeteries 🤔. We're already talking about burying humans on Mars 🌌. Is this just another sign that we're running out of space for, like, everything? And what's next? Pet museums to honor our furry friends' memories? 😳 I mean, I know a lot of people love their pets but let's be real, it's just an animal at the end of the day... my cat doesn't care about me dying 🐈. Plus, isn't this just another way for companies to make money off grieving pet owners?
 
I mean I'm not surprised that more cities are opening up public pet cemeteries 🤔...it's like they're just catching up to how we used to treat our pets back in the day, you know? My grandma had this old cat, Snowball, and when she passed away, my grandma buried her in their backyard with a little headstone that said "Beloved Companion" 🐈. Nowadays it's all about cremation and online memorials, but I think there's something nice about having a place where people can go to say goodbye to their pets like they would to a human family member 💔.

I've been thinking, maybe we're just getting more comfortable with showing our emotions when it comes to our pets 🤗. My friend lost her dog last year and was really struggling to talk about it online, but then she started using this online platform that let her share photos and stories about her dog's life...it helped a lot, I think. And now they're opening up these public pet cemeteries? It just feels like we're finally starting to acknowledge how much our pets mean to us 🐾💕.
 
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