Sure, kids can be annoying – but making public spaces 'child-free' is wrong | Emma Beddington

France's SNCF has launched a new train carriage policy, dubbed "Optimum", designed to exclude children under 12 from this space, citing concerns about noise levels and disruptions to business meetings. However, the company's decision has been met with widespread outrage and criticism, both within France and beyond.

The backlash was swift and vocal, with many arguing that such a policy is not only unreasonable but also reflects a broader societal trend of intolerance towards children. The French high commissioner for children, Sarah El Haïry, described the initiative as "shocking", while academics have pointed to the growing trend of adults-only spaces, including shopping malls and amusement parks, which are excluding teenagers from traditional hangouts.

This phenomenon is not unique to France, with cities such as Chicago and Washington introducing youth curfews in some areas. In the UK, there has been a call for "safe, welcoming, and unstructured space" for teenagers, who often feel excluded from their own communities.

Proponents of adults-only spaces argue that they are necessary for business meetings or relaxation, but critics point out that this approach ignores the importance of community and social interaction. As one writer notes, "inconvenience is the price of community", suggesting that we need to tolerate some disruption in order to reap the benefits of social connection.

The article also highlights the need to reevaluate our attitudes towards children, who are being increasingly excluded from public spaces. The writer argues that children are not just a future demographic but also an important part of our present and past, with many adults still exhibiting loud and boisterous behavior in public places.

Ultimately, the debate around SNCF's "Optimum" policy serves as a reminder of the importance of finding balance between individual needs and social responsibility. By embracing diversity and inclusivity, we can create spaces that are welcoming to all ages and backgrounds, rather than excluding certain groups from our communities.
 
🚫😱 I'm literally shocked by this SNCF policy 🤯! What's next? Excluding seniors from libraries or public restrooms? 😂 As a parent, it's disheartening to see that some people think kids are just an afterthought 👧🏻. Newsflash: kids need space to grow and socialize too! 👥 All these adults-only spaces are creating a "us vs them" mentality 🤖. I get it, business meetings can be noisy, but what about the noise of families enjoying quality time together? 😬 It's all about finding balance, not excluding certain age groups from public spaces 🙅‍♀️. We need to get back to that old-school value of community and social interaction 💕.
 
I'm like totally fine with kids being excluded from this train carriage lol 🤔... I mean, who doesn't love a quiet space for business meetings and whatnot? But at the same time, can we just relax and let kids be kids, you know? They're not always gonna be all noise and disruption... I'm sure they'll get bored with all the screaming and tantrums eventually 😂. And on the other hand, I think it's kinda cool that some cities are introducing youth curfews to create space for teens in their own communities. But wait, what if those same teens are like, totally ruining the vibe of an adult-only space? 🤷‍♂️ I don't know, man... Can we just find a happy medium and make sure everyone's comfortable? Maybe invest in some fancy soundproofing technology or something? 🎧
 
😒 I'm literally shocked by this news! Like, who thought it was a good idea to exclude kids under 12 from a train carriage? It's not like they're gonna be super loud or disrupting meetings... I mean, come on! 🚂 What's next? Adults-only airports? Shopping malls? It's like we're creating these little 'adults-only' bubbles and leaving the youth out. That's just not right, you know? 🤷‍♀️

And have you seen all those cities with youth curfews in some areas? Chicago, Washington... it's like they're trying to kick our kids out of their own communities! 🚫 What even is that? The thing is, we need to learn to deal with a little noise and disruption. That's how we build community and social connections, right? 🤝

I think the whole adult-only space thing is super problematic. It's like we're saying our youth are not important or something. Newsflash: they are! They're part of our present and past, too! 😊 We need to find ways to make spaces welcoming for all ages, not just for our own convenience.

Anyway... I'm totally on the side of the kids 🎉 #KidsFirst #InclusiveSpaces 👍
 
🚂😕 I gotta say, this whole adults-only train carriage thing is just plain weird 🤪. Like, what's the big deal about kids making a bit of noise or disrupting business meetings? It sounds like SNCF is trying to suck out some of that youthful energy and replace it with...well, nothing 🌫️.

It's like they think kids are just going to disappear or something 😒. Newsflash: we're not 21 anymore, but we're still human beings who need social interaction too 👥. And let's be real, those business meetings could use a bit of chaos and creativity 💡.

The thing is, this whole trend of excluding certain age groups from public spaces just doesn't add up 🤔. We're already struggling to create inclusive spaces for everyone; now we're trying to exclude half the population? 😬 It's like we're taking all that progress backwards ⏪.

What I think we need to do is take a step back and reevaluate our priorities 👣. Do we want to be communities that welcome diversity, creativity, and social interaction, or are we just going to create more bubble spaces for the "adults only" crowd? 🌐
 
🙄 I mean, come on... adults-only spaces? That's just crazy talk! Back in my day, we didn't need some fancy train carriage policy to tell us when we could take a break or have a business meeting. We just used common sense and considered other people around us.

I'm not saying kids are always well-behaved, but they're part of our society too! 🤯 And what about all the families who still exist in this day and age? Do we really need to exclude them from public spaces? It's like they want us to grow up with some kind of timer on our childhood or something. Newsflash: kids are not a phase, they're just... kids!

And don't even get me started on these youth curfews in cities like Chicago and Washington. What's next? Putting age limits on coffee shops? 🤣 I mean, I'm all for giving people some peace and quiet when they need it, but this policy is just taking things too far.

Let's just rethink our approach to community and social interaction. We don't need some fancy train carriage policy to remind us that we're not the only ones in the world anymore! 🙃
 
Wow 🤯 this new train carriage policy is crazy! Interesting how some people think it's a good idea but others are totally against it 😡. I mean, shouldn't there be seats for kids too? 🤔 It's like they're saying the world revolves around business meetings and relaxation, not families with kids 👧🏼. I'm all for some peace and quiet on trains, but excluding kids is just unfair 🙅‍♀️.
 
🚫😡 what is this world comin' to?! France is gonna kick out kids under 12 from their train carriage? That's just cruel 🤕. I mean, I get it, some people might wanna chill in peace without the noise and chaos of young'uns, but come on! Kids are people too! 👧🏻 They deserve a chance to express themselves and have fun with their peers. This 'Optimum' policy is just another example of how we're losin' our sense of community and inclusivity 🤝. What's next? Gonna start puttin' up "No kids allowed" signs in parks and playgrounds too?! 🏞️😡
 
😒 I don't get why SNCF would do this... kids shouldn't be forced to sit somewhere just because some people want to work or chill without the noise 😕. It's like they're creating a whole new generation of loners? 🤔 And what about all those businesses that are gonna lose customers 'cause their stores aren't kid-friendly anymore? 🚫 The world needs more community, not less! 🌎
 
I'm totally shook by this news 🤯 #JusticeForKids! I mean, come on, kids are not the problem here! They're just trying to have fun and be kids. Excluding them from public spaces like trains is just crazy talk 😱 #NotMyTrainCarriage.

It's so sad to see adults-only spaces popping up everywhere. Like, where's the community in that? 🤔 Where are all the teens supposed to hang out now? It's not just about noise levels and business meetings, it's about creating a space for people of all ages to connect and have fun! 💥 #TeenagersUnite.

We need to reevaluate our attitudes towards kids and remember that they're an important part of our society, not just the future 🤝. They bring energy, enthusiasm, and curiosity to public spaces! Let's create a world where everyone can feel welcome and included, regardless of age or background #InclusionForAll 💖
 
omg I'm literally shocked by this 🤯! who does SNCF think they are?! 😡 it's not like kids are being loud or disrupting business meetings or anything... I mean what about when you're a kid trying to relax with your parents on public transport? 🚂 doesn't anyone care about families anymore? 🤷‍♀️
 
Ugh 🤯 I cant even believe SNCF did this 🚫! They think kids under 12 are just gonna magically be quiet and won't disturb anyone? Newsflash: they're human beings too 😂! And what's with the business meetings excuse? Are adults not capable of taking a few minutes to themselves? It's all about adult privilege, imo 👎. And don't even get me started on these youth curfews in Chicago and Washington... like, what's next? A national "no kids allowed" law? 🤷‍♀️
 
🤦‍♀️ I'm literally shocked by this new train carriage policy in France! Like, what's next? They're gonna make schools for adults only too?! 😂 It just doesn't make sense that they're excluding kids under 12 just because of noise levels and business meetings. I mean, can't people just chill out or use headphones like a normal person?!

And you know what really gets me is when people say it's about tolerance and community. Tolerance means accepting each other's differences, not making rules to exclude certain groups! 🤝 My friends and I were talking at school the other day, how are we supposed to bond with our siblings and cousins if they're not even allowed to sit with us in a train carriage?! It's just so unfair!

And have you seen those new youth curfews in Chicago and Washington? Like, what's going on here?! Can't cities just relax a bit and let kids enjoy their lives too?! 🤷‍♀️ I'm all for finding balance, but this is just taking it to the next level! 😂
 
I'm literally shook by this news 🤯. I mean, what's next? Leaving out seniors from shopping malls too? 😂 It just feels like we're losing touch with the fact that kids are still kids 🤷‍♀️. And have you seen those new 'youth curfews' in Chicago and Washington? Like, aren't they just going to grow up somewhere else? 😒 I remember when I was a teenager, my friends and I would always want to go to the movies or hang out at the mall on Fridays after school... and we didn't need some fancy 'adults-only space' to have fun 🍿👫. It's just so unfair that kids are being excluded from all these public spaces because of a few noisy passengers 😔. Can't we just find a way to accommodate everyone? Maybe it's time for the French to rethink their whole 'Optimum' policy and get with the times 💡.
 
🚂💔 I'm totally with Sarah El Haïry on this one... it's shocking that SNCF would even consider a policy like this! 🤯 Kids under 12 are an integral part of families and society, and to exclude them from public spaces just because some adults want to have a quiet train ride is ridiculous. 😴

And let's be real, business meetings can totally accommodate some background noise... it's not the end of the world if there are some giggling kids in the background 🎉. And what about all the times we've had loud conversations with friends and family while on public transport? 🚌 We're all human beings, after all! 👥

I think this whole trend towards adults-only spaces is a bit worrying... it's like we're creating these separate bubbles where kids aren't even welcome anymore 😔. What about the next generation of thinkers, innovators, and leaders who are being left out of the conversation? 🤔 We need to be creating spaces that are inclusive and welcoming to all ages, not just some privileged adults who want a quiet ride. 💖
 
🤦‍♀️ like, who thought it was a good idea to make a train carriage "optimum" for adults only? 🚂😒 I mean, what's next? kids-only zones in parks and cafes? 🏞️😓 it's just another example of how we're losing our sense of community and acceptance towards all ages. 🤝 those business meetings can be held anywhere else, but can't they see that kids need space to grow and socialize too? 🤷‍♀️ and what's with the "noise levels" excuse? does anyone think kids are just gonna magically shut up in a train carriage? 🙄
 
🚫💔 I mean, come on... what's next? Grown-ups-only beaches or parks?! 😱 It's like they're trying to erase the sound of kids having fun. 🎉 SNCF should reconsider their policy ASAP! 🚂😤 And can we talk about how weird it is that some people think adults-only spaces are a thing? What happened to community and social interaction? 👥 We need spaces where everyone can feel welcome, regardless of age. 👍 Let's not forget, kids have the right to enjoy public spaces too! 🌞
 
😡🚂 this is so messed up 🤯 kids have just as much right to use public transport as adults do 😒 I mean what's next? excluding toddlers from cafes or playgrounds? 🤷‍♀️ it's all about being grown up and responsible, but not at the expense of letting kids be kids 🎉👧🏻 we need to create spaces that are inclusive and fun for everyone, not just for business meetings or relaxation 😴
 
🚂😒 I gotta say, France's new train carriage policy is kinda mind-blowing... like, who thought it was a good idea to kick out the little ones at 12? 🤔 It's not just about noise levels or business meetings; it's about creating spaces that feel welcoming and inclusive for everyone. And let's be real, kids are an important part of our communities too! 😊 The trend of excluding teens from public spaces is pretty alarming, and it's not unique to France – I've seen it in malls and parks here too. 🤦‍♀️ We need to rethink how we approach community and social interaction; inconvenience might be the price, but it's worth it for our collective well-being. 💖
 
I'm totally bummed out by this news 🤕 SNCF's "Optimum" policy is literally exclusionary and not cool at all. I mean, what's the point of having a train if you're just gonna ban kids under 12? It's like they think adults are the only ones who need some peace & quiet 😴 Newsflash: kids deserve to have fun too! 🎉 And honestly, it's pretty discriminatory - what about families who rely on public transportation? Don't they deserve access to all spaces? 🤷‍♀️ The fact that this is happening in France, of all places, is just mind-blowing 😲 We need to stand up against these kinds of policies and fight for inclusivity in all areas of life. 👊
 
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