Teenage Daydream by Debsey Wykes review – coming of age in an all-girl guitar band

Debsey Wykes' memoir 'Teenage Daydream' is a nostalgic and unflinching account of her experiences as the lead singer and bassist of the all-girl Cambridge post-punk band Dolly Mixture in the late 1970s. Wykes recounts the highs and lows of forming the band, navigating the male-dominated music industry, and struggling to make it big despite their unique sound.

The book is a coming-of-age tale that captures the reckless optimism of adolescence, which fueled the band's decision to form in school and pursue their passion for music. Despite the skepticism they faced from record labels and critics, Dolly Mixture persevered, earning the praise of influential figures like John Peel and NME, who likened them to the Ramones.

Wykes' vivid descriptions of the band's early days are both captivating and chaotic, revealing a world of self-penned songs, DIY ethos, and scuzzy living conditions. From their manager's flat in Soho, where they'd have to use umbrellas to shield themselves from leaks, to their disastrous gigs, where hostile audiences and sexist industry executives took their toll, Wykes' memoir is an unvarnished look at the challenges faced by young women in the music industry.

While the book shines a light on Dolly Mixture's overlooked history, it also raises important questions about the state of the music industry today. Wykes argues that the struggles her band faced are still relevant to contemporary musicians, many of whom face similar obstacles in pursuing their dreams.

Through its raw honesty and infectious enthusiasm, 'Teenage Daydream' serves as a testament to the power of female friendships and the enduring legacy of Dolly Mixture's music. As Wykes reflects on her past in 2024, it's clear that this book is not just a nostalgic trip but also a vital contribution to the conversation about women in music, perseverance, and the importance of preserving our cultural heritage.
 
🙌 I just read this article about Debsey Wykes' memoir 'Teenage Daydream' & I'm low-key obsessed 🤩 The way she talks about forming Dolly Mixture in school is so relatable it's like reading a chapter from my own life! 😂 I mean, who hasn't had to deal with skeptics and industry people not getting their vibe? 💁‍♀️ It's crazy how the struggles they faced back then are still happening today. Like, what can we do to make the music industry more inclusive & supportive for female artists? 🤔 The fact that Debsey is speaking out about this stuff now is so important – it's like she's lighting a beacon of hope for all the young women out there trying to make their mark 🌟
 
awww its so inspiring to see debsey wykes' story get celebrated like this 🙌! i mean can you even imagine being part of an all-girl band back then? that's just amazing 💖. and the fact that they had to deal with sexism and skepticism from labels and critics is just heartbreaking 😔. but what's so beautiful about debsey wykes' memoir is how it shows us that perseverance and passion can take you far 🌟. it's like, we need more stories like this to remind us that our struggles are valid and that we're not alone 💕. anyway i'm totally going to have to read 'teenage daydream' now!
 
Wow 💥 I'm loving the raw honesty in Debsey Wykes' memoir, it's like you're right there with her experiencing all that chaos & rebellion 🤘. The way she talks about female friendships & perseverance is so inspiring, I can already imagine the impact this book will have on young musicians today 🌟
 
Wow 😊🎸 I love how this book shines a light on Dolly Mixture's history - they were totally ahead of their time! Interesting how Wykes' experiences still resonate with young musicians today 💖🎶
 
🤔 I'm both excited and skeptical about Debsey Wykes' memoir 'Teenage Daydream'. On one hand, it's awesome that her story is finally getting out there - we need more tales from underrepresented women in music. The fact that she and the band faced sexism, hostile audiences, and skepticism from industry insiders makes their achievements all the more impressive. But on the other hand, I'm worried about the relevance of their struggles to contemporary musicians. I mean, didn't the music industry change a lot since the late 70s? Are we still seeing the same issues with sexism and sexism-related problems today? 🤷‍♀️ It's great that Wykes is talking about perseverance, but what's being done now to address these issues? Can't we do better than just " persevering"? 🎸
 
🤯 I mean... thinkin' about Dolly Mixture reminds me, the music industry has come so far since their time, but we're still dealin' with similar issues today 🕰️. It's like, people say women in music are makin' progress, but what does that even look like? Is it just more female-fronted bands or is it actual equality? I feel like Wykes is right on point when she says the struggles of her band are still relevant, 'cause we're seein' so many young women tryin' to make it in a industry that's always been kinda hostile 🎸. And don't even get me started on the whole DIY ethos thing... I mean, I love that they were all about doin' things themselves, but it also speaks to this idea that women have had to work twice as hard just to be taken seriously 💪. It's like, we're still seein' these same patterns of sexism and misogyny today 🤷‍♀️.
 
🤯 I mean, can you believe how raw and honest Debsey Wykes is about her experiences? It's like she's still stuck in that messy Soho flat from back in the day 🏠💥 And honestly, it's kinda refreshing to see someone unapologetic about their mistakes. I love how she dives straight into the chaos – no sugarcoating here! 💁‍♀️ It's like we're right there with her, dodging sexist industry execs and hostile audiences 🤘 What I find really interesting is how relevant this story still is today. Wykes' struggles are so relatable, especially for young women who wanna make it in the music scene. Keep slaying, Debsey! 💖
 
OMG u guys I'm totally obsessed w/ Debsey Wykes' memoir 'Teenage Daydream'!!! 🤩 it's like she's speaking directly 2 my soul i mean can u even imagine navigating the music industry in ur teenage years? especially as a girl? 😱 it's wild how she & her band Dolly Mixture persevered despite all the sexism & criticism they faced. I feel so inspired by their DIY ethos & self-penned songs 🎸📝 i wish I could've been part of that scene back in the day lol. and can we talk about how refreshing it is 2 see a book that's not just a nostalgic trip but also a commentary on the industry today? 💁‍♀️ it's so relevant w/ all the struggles contemporary musicians face. I need 2 read more about Dolly Mixture ASAP! 📚🎶
 
🎸💖 I'm loving this memoir, it's like Wykes is talking right to you! You know, people always say that the 70s were all about change and revolution, but for young women trying to make it in music, it was basically a nightmare. 😩 I mean, can you imagine having to navigate all that sexism and skepticism just because of your gender? It's crazy that they had to deal with hostile crowds and industry execs who thought they didn't belong just because they were women. 💁‍♀️ But what I love about this book is how it shows that even in the midst of all that chaos, Dolly Mixture found a way to make music that meant something to them and to others. And Wykes' writing is so vivid and honest - you can practically smell the sweat and smoke from their DIY gigs! 🤟
 
OMG u guyz!!! 🤩 Debsey Wykes memoir "Teenage Daydream" sounds like an AMAZING read!! I'm lowkey obsessed w/ the idea of a female post-punk band from Cambridge takin' over the 70s music scene 🎸👯‍♀️. It's wild how they faced sexism and skepticism but still managed to make it big, right? 💖 I love how Wykes shares her personal stories, from DIY ethos to scuzzy living conditions - it's like u r livin' vicariously through her 😂. And omg the connections she made w/ influential ppl like John Peel & NME? 🔥 This book is def a must-read for anyone who loves music history or is just lookin' 4 some real talk about women in the industry 💁‍♀️📚
 
can u imagine how hard it must've been for Debsey & the Dolly Mixture crew to break into an industry thats literally stacked against them? like, sexism & all that... anyway i think its so cool that Debs is sharing her story now. it's like, we're still dealing with similar issues today. women in music r still facing a ton of barriers. but at the same time, it's also super inspiring to see how Dolly Mixture persevered. their DIY ethos & all that is still really relevant. and i love how Debs is talking about the power of female friendships too 🤗🎸💖
 
I'm so down for books like 'Teenage Daydream' - they're like a breath of fresh air 🌿💨! I mean, can you imagine being part of a band in the late 70s? The music scene was so different back then 🎸🕺. It's crazy to think that Dolly Mixture was already making waves with their unique sound and perseverance 💪🏼. And yeah, it's super inspiring to see how female friendships can make all the difference in overcoming obstacles 🤩. The music industry is still a tough nut to crack, but this book shows us that we're not alone - there are so many women out there who've been through similar struggles and come out on top 💕.
 
I'm so hyped for "Teenage Daydream"!!! 🤩 I mean, can you imagine being part of an all-girl band in the 70s? That's like, totally wild! 💁‍♀️ The fact that Debsey Wykes and Dolly Mixture are still making waves after all these years is just amazing. And I love how this book isn't just a nostalgic trip but also a commentary on how things have changed (or not) for women in music. It's like, we've made progress but there's still so much work to be done, you know? 🙌
 
I gotta say, I'm loving this memoir - it's like Wykes is throwing down the gauntlet for all these young musicians out there who are trying to make it big 🌟. I mean, think about it, she's talking about the struggles she faced back in the 70s, and how they're still relevant today? That's what I call a powerful commentary on the state of our industry, folks! It's like, we're still dealing with sexism, misogyny, and all sorts of other obstacles that make it hard for women to break through. But Wykes is saying, "Hey, we've been here before, and we can do it again" 💪. And you know what? I think she's right. We need more voices like hers, speaking truth to power and pushing for change. It's time to shake things up in the music industry, and 'Teenage Daydream' is the perfect catalyst for that conversation 🔥.
 
🤔 I mean, isn't this all kinda cool? But at the same time, it feels like we're rehashing the same old stories from the 70s. Like, yeah, sexism in the music industry is still a thing, but has anyone really changed since then? 🎸 The fact that they had to use umbrellas in their manager's flat just seems kinda... extra. And what's with the Ramones comparison? Did NME not have anything better to do back then? 😒
 
I don't usually comment but I'm totally fascinated by Debsey Wykes' memoir 'Teenage Daydream'. It's crazy to think about how Dolly Mixture was ahead of their time 🤯, playing punk rock in a world that wasn't exactly welcoming to women and non-traditional bands. The fact that they persevered despite all the setbacks is really inspiring ⚡️. I also love how Wykes captures the chaos and energy of the late 70s music scene - it's like you can almost smell the patchouli and smoke 🤪. But what really got me was how Wykes' story still resonates today 💁‍♀️. It's not just a nostalgic trip into the past, but a reminder that the struggles women in music face are still very much relevant 🎸.
 
Ugh, I'm so over the whole 'classic' comeback narrative 🤦‍♀️. Every old band gets a memoir now and suddenly they're pioneers again. I mean, come on, Debsey Wykes could've just as easily written this book 20 years ago when it was still relevant. The problem with the music industry is that it's always been male-dominated, but we didn't used to make such a big deal about it in the past. Nowadays it feels like every old band getting a memoir is just an excuse for them to cash in on nostalgia 🤑. I'd rather read a book from someone who actually lived through the time period and wasn't trying to profit off of it, you know?
 
🤯 I'm still blown away by how inspiring 'Teenage Daydream' is! As a parent, I remember my kid telling me about this band Dolly Mixture and how they totally deserved to be famous 🙄! It's crazy to think that they were part of the post-punk scene back in the 70s - talk about being ahead of their time 💥. The fact that Debsey Wykes is still speaking out about the struggles she faced as a female musician is so empowering, especially for young girls who are just starting to find their passion 🎸.

I love how the book showcases the power of female friendships and perseverance - my kid's school is all about promoting those values right now 📚. And it's heartbreaking to think about how sexism in the music industry still exists today 😔, but I'm so grateful that Wykes is helping to shed light on this important issue.

I've been meaning to introduce my kid to more old-school bands like Dolly Mixture - they should totally have a playlist of 70s punk classics 🎵!
 
🎸💖 I JUST FINALLY GOT MY HANDS ON DEBSEY WYKES' MEMOIR AND IT'S BEEN A WILD RIDE FROM THE GET GO! i mean the stories she's sharing about dolly mixture are so raw and real, it feels like you're right there with them, navigating the ups and downs of the music industry as a young woman. it's crazy to think that they were being told by people that their sound was too weird or too experimental for the mainstream, but they still managed to make waves and have some amazing moments, like when john peel came on board. the part about having to use umbrellas in soho because of leaks in their manager's flat is just, ugh, can you even imagine? 🤯
 
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