The death of the living room: 'It's hard to invite people over – not everyone wants to sit on a bed'

The Death of the Living Room: A Space No Longer for Socializing?

For Georgie, a 27-year-old climbing instructor, moving into a house-share without a living room was not the end of the world. In fact, she thought it would be fine since she had limited options and the house was cheap. However, the lack of a communal space left her feeling isolated, despite spending time with friends at their houses for dinner.

A recent study by SpareRoom found that 29.8% of rooms listed in the UK are without living room access, with this number rising to 41.2% in London. Almost half (49%) of renters surveyed reported that their home's living room is now being used as a bedroom.

This trend has been observed for centuries. In the late 19th and early 20th centuries, Edward Bok popularized the term "living room" to encourage daily use of communal spaces. However, with central heating and electric heating becoming more common in the 1930s and 1940s, bedrooms began to take on a new role as living rooms.

Today, the concept of shared leisure space is still debated. According to SpareRoom's research, 44% of respondents believe that not having a living room may have affected their mental health. However, 36% of those living in shared properties would willingly forgo a living room in exchange for cheaper rent.

Many experts agree that having a living room is essential to a healthy home life. Peter Markos, an architect, was forced to move back to his hometown after his landlord converted the living room into another bedroom. "The quality of life was so much better," he said.

Regan Billingsley, an interior designer, believes that rooms should evolve based on how they are used. "Every home should reflect the rhythm of the people in it," she says. However, Platman remains unconvinced and emphasizes the importance of having a space that belongs to everyone.

For those without traditional living spaces, there are solutions. Billingsley suggests layering texture, lighting, and furniture placement to create natural gathering points. Built-in banquettes and large dining tables can also serve as lounge areas.

In conclusion, while the concept of shared leisure space is still debated, having a living room seems to be essential for fostering conversation and relaxation. As our lifestyles and priorities continue to evolve, it will be interesting to see how this trend plays out in the future.
 
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🤷‍♀️ is so over no living rooms 🚫💔 anyone else tired of having to eat and chill elsewhere? 🍴😒 [GIF of a person trying to have a conversation in a tiny room] 😂
 
Idk man... 🤔 I'm all about flexibility when it comes to spaces and stuff, but at the same time, I feel like having a living room is literally essential for adulting 🏠👍 But then again, what's the point of having a bunch of empty space just collecting dust? 🤷‍♀️ I mean, can't we just get creative with how we use our spaces and make them work for us instead of against us? 💡 Like, why do we need a traditional living room to have socialize? 🤔 A cozy nook or a big backyard could totally be enough, right? 😊 And don't even get me started on the whole cost thing... cheaper rent all the way! 💸
 
🤔 ugh i cant believe we r losin our livin rooms 🏠😴 its like people r more concerned w/ savin rent than havin a space 2 chill & catch up w/ friends lol 29.8% of rooms in the uk dont even have a living room access? that's insane 🤯 spareroom needs 2 do better than just collectin stats n studyin trends 📊👎
 
I'm so done with this trend 🙄. People are basically giving up on socializing altogether because they can't even afford a decent living room anymore 💸. I mean, what's next? No backyard for BBQs or pool parties? It's like we're all just stuck in our tiny bedrooms 24/7 and expected to be okay with it 😴. And don't even get me started on how this is affecting mental health... 44% of people are saying it's had a negative impact, but who's gonna listen? 🤷‍♀️
 
I gotta say, I'm all about chillin' at home, you know? But this whole no-living-room thing got me thinkin'. Like, what's the point of havin' a house if you can't even hang with your mates in one place? 🤔 It's like, we used to have these rad living rooms that were all about socializin', and now it seems like they're gettin' pushed out by bedrooms.

I mean, I've been there too - movin' into a house-share without a livin' room was a bit of a bummer. But Georgie's story just reminded me that we can still make stuff work at home. Like, layering texture and lightin' can create these awesome nooks for chillin'. And if you're feelin' fancy, throw in some built-in banquettes or a giant dinin' table. Voilà! You got yourself a livin' room, even without walls. 😊
 
I'm like "yeah, what's wrong with not having a traditional living room?" I mean, Georgie is chillin' just fine without one... people are just expecting too much, you know? The study says 29.8% of rooms in the UK don't have a living room, but that doesn't mean they're not social spaces... it's all about what you make of it 🤷‍♀️. And those experts who say it affects mental health? Please, get over yourself 😒. It's all about adapting to your lifestyle and finding ways to create cozy hangouts that work for you, like Billingsley said 💡. I don't need some fancy-schmancy living room to chill out, but hey, if that's what works for someone else... 🤷‍♂️.
 
🤔 I mean, can't we just make do with what we've got? I'm not saying having a living room is like, totally necessary or anything... but at the same time, it's kinda nice to have a space where people can just hang out and chat without being in their rooms all the time. 🛋️ It's all about balance, right?

I get that some people might be okay with sharing spaces or even not having one altogether, but for me, it's like... if I'm paying rent, I want to have a space that's mine, you know? 😊 And I think it's cool that designers are looking at ways to make shared spaces work, like layering texture and stuff.

But yeah, let's just see how this whole living room thing plays out, I guess. Maybe we'll figure out some new way to make sharing spaces cool again 🤷‍♀️🏠
 
I'm kinda thinking that maybe we're just getting used to not having a living room anymore 😒. I mean, remember when we used to hang out in dorm rooms or backyard BBQs? Now, it's all about finding space to chill at someone else's place. I think what's missing is the sense of community, you know? We need spaces that encourage face-to-face interactions, but maybe that's not possible with everyone being so busy and whatnot.

I'm also wondering if we're just getting lazy or something 🤔. Like, why do we need a dedicated room for relaxation when we can just hang out in the kitchen or something? I guess it's all about priorities, right? If you want to spend time with friends and family, maybe you don't need a fancy living room. But at the same time, having one can be super nice... I dunno, maybe it's just a matter of finding the middle ground 💭.
 
I think it's kinda wild that we're losing communal spaces like living rooms 🤯. For me, it's not just about having a place to chill with friends, it's also about creating memories and feeling connected to others. I had friends move into this tiny house without a living room, and they were always stressing about finding ways to make the space feel cozy. Like, I get that rent prices are high, but is it really worth sacrificing our mental health 🤷‍♀️? I think Regan has a point about rooms evolving based on how we use them, though - maybe we just need to be more intentional about creating those gathering points 💡. And I love Billingsley's idea of layering texture and lighting to create a vibe 😊. Anyway, I'm hoping this trend doesn't take off too much, or we'll all be like Georgie, feeling isolated despite being surrounded by people 👥.
 
idk about this trend, like they're saying less about having living rooms? 🤔 my friends who live in these tiny flats still manage to hang out at each other's places for movie nights or game nights... and that actually feels more chill than trying to make a space work at home all the time. maybe it's just me but i feel like we're losing some of that social interaction vibe when living rooms become just another room 📚 what do u guys think tho?
 
I'm totally nostalgic about the old days when you had a proper living room at home 🏠😒. Now it's like, a bedroom or just a bunch of rooms with no chill zone, you know? I remember my friends and me hanging out in our living room all day, watching movies, playing board games... it was just so much more relaxed back then. I mean, 29.8% of rooms without living rooms is crazy! 🤯 What's wrong with people these days? Don't they want to hang out and socialize anymore? 🤔 I guess it's just about prioritizing rent over having a cool space to chill. 😐
 
I feel like we're losing that cozy vibe in our homes 🤔. I mean, I've got friends who live in house-shares without a proper living room, and they're still managing just fine... but it's not the same as having your own space to chill out with mates after work 💻. SpareRoom's research is pretty eye-opening, especially with 44% of people saying it affects mental health 🤕.

I think Regan Billingsley's ideas on layering texture and furniture placement are solid 🔥, but can we make some compromises? Maybe not having a traditional living room doesn't mean you've failed at creating a social space 😊. It's all about finding alternative solutions that work for you and your community 🌈. For me, it's all about making the most of my tiny kitchen-turned-lounge area 🍽️. Bring on the multi-functional furniture and cozy nooks! 👍
 
I think this whole thing about losing our living rooms is a bummer 🤕. I mean, who doesn't love just chillin' with mates in the sofa? It's not like we're going back to those old days where every room was a bedroom and you had to fight for attention 😂. But seriously, it makes sense that people want that space to themselves or to use as needed. Like, I've been in flats before where everyone has their own space and it feels so isolating 🤐. Maybe we just need to get creative with how we use our homes? Like, we can make a nook or something for chillin' instead of having a whole room 🏠💡
 
I think its kinda weird that people are willing to give up a living room for cheaper rent 🤔💸. Like, isn't socializing and chillin' with friends worth more than just saving some cash? 😐 Anyway, I feel like having a space where everyone can hang out is super important for mental health 💆‍♀️👥.
 
I feel like we're losing something super important here 🤔. Having no living room or being forced to use a bedroom as one is just not the same as having a space where you can all chill together, share stories, and connect 📚💕. It's like the lines between work and play are getting really blurred. I mean, what's next? Losing our backyard spaces or community centers? 🌳😔
 
I'm thinking that's kinda weird how people are sacrificing social time just 'cause it's cheaper rent 🤔. Like, don't get me wrong, I've lived in shared spaces too and you can make do, but for a living room to be just a bedroom? That sounds super isolating to me. I mean, what's the point of even having a place that's only for chillin' if it's not used as such? And don't even get me started on how people are layering textures and stuff in their rooms now... it's like they're trying too hard to create a vibe 🛋️. I guess some people might be okay with that, but for me, having a space where you can just hang out with friends is what makes a place feel like home 💬
 
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