You be the judge: should my housemates bring the bins in?

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Mo's housemates are at it again - but this time they've taken their inconsiderate bin-wrangling antics to a whole new level. Ben and Roisin, Mo's long-time friends turned flatmates, seem to think that leaving the bins out for days on end is no big deal.

Mo, on the other hand, takes issue with the lack of effort from his housemates. He's always been keen to keep the peace with their upstairs neighbours, a couple in their 40s who've lived in the building longer than any of them. The problem is, when Mo's away working - often for stretches - Ben and Roisin let the whole system fall apart. The bins don't get put back in, causing friction with the neighbours and even attracting random people who chuck their rubbish into the already overflowing bins.

Ben claims that he doesn't see why his housemates are making such a fuss about the bins. "Rubbish belongs in the bin," he says, "and bins belong in the street." He argues that it's not a big deal if the bins sit out for an extra day or two - and that Mo is overreacting.

But Mo doesn't buy it. He thinks Ben and Roisin are being selfish and inconsiderate, putting their own interests above those of their neighbours. And he's right - when your neighbours have to clean up after you, it can create a bit of resentment.

The Guardian readers have weighed in on the issue, with most saying that Ben is being inconsiderate and should step up his game when it comes to taking out the bins. But there are also some who think Mo is overreacting - that leaving the bins out for a day or two isn't a huge deal, especially if someone else is going to take care of them.

So, whose argument will you side with? Do Ben and Roisin get a free pass on their bin-wrangling mistakes, or should they be held accountable for keeping the peace with their neighbours?

Ultimately, it's up to us to decide. But one thing's for sure - we need more consideration from our housemates when it comes to something as simple (or not so simple) as taking out the bins.
 
"It takes a village to raise a child" ๐Ÿ’–... and in this case, it seems like Ben and Roisin are being a bit lazy with the bin-wrangling responsibilities. But on the other hand, Mo can't be too harsh either... gotta find that balance, you know? ๐Ÿค”
 
๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™‚๏ธ [image of a person with a big forehead and a shocked expression] ๐Ÿšฎ๐Ÿ’” Ben: "I don't see why my housemates are making such a fuss about the bins..." ๐Ÿ™„ When you're leaving trash for everyone else to deal with... ๐Ÿ˜’
 
omg can u blame ben & roisin for not takin care of the bins ?? ๐Ÿ™„ they're literally bein super lazy and it's causin problems 4 everyone ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™‚๏ธ especially the neighbours who have to deal w/ the stinky bins 2day ๐Ÿšฎ๐Ÿ’” but at the same time, mo needs 2 chill out a bit ๐Ÿ™ƒ he's overreacting 2o much ๐Ÿ˜ฉ it's just bins, not life or death ๐Ÿคฃ
 
Omg I feel for Mo ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™‚๏ธ like if someone came into my home and started making a mess, I'd be super annoyed too! Ben & Roisin might think they're being chill but honestly it's just inconsiderate of them to leave their bin situation up to chance ๐Ÿ™„. And yeah, when your neighbours have to clean up after you it can create some major resentment ๐Ÿ˜’. Maybe if Ben & Roisin took out the bins on a schedule or something, that'd be more considerate ๐Ÿ’ก
 
I don't think it's that hard to just put the bins back in ๐Ÿค”... like, what if you were going on holiday and someone left your bin out ๐Ÿ–๏ธ? You'd want it done quickly right? Same thing here... Mo's just trying to keep the peace with his neighbours. I don't think Ben and Roisin are that bad ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™‚๏ธ... but maybe they should make an effort to do their part in keeping the bins tidy? Idk, what do you guys think about this whole thing ๐Ÿ˜’?
 
I'm totally on Mo's side on this one ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™‚๏ธ. I mean, come on, leaving the bins out for days is not just annoying, it's also a responsibility we all share as tenants. Ben and Roisin need to step up their game and take care of those bins when they're away working or whatever. It's not that hard, guys! ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™‚๏ธ And yeah, I can see how it would create some resentment if you have to deal with overflowing trash all the time. We should all be considerate of each other, especially when it comes to something as basic as taking out the bins. Maybe they should make a schedule or something so everyone knows what's expected? ๐Ÿ“…
 
I think Ben and Roisin are being super lazy ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ... I mean, come on, you put your trash in the bin, that's just basic courtesy ๐Ÿšฎ๐Ÿ‘. Leaving it out for days can attract pests and make a mess of the whole area - not to mention the stress it causes for the neighbors ๐Ÿ™„.

I've lived with roommates before too, and trust me, someone always gets annoyed about something ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ. But in this case, Ben and Roisin's lack of effort is really getting on Mo's nerves ๐Ÿ˜’. I think Mo has a point - as long as you're contributing to the household, you should also consider your impact on others ๐ŸŒŽ.

Ben might say it's not a big deal, but when your neighbors are already dealing with their own stress and stuff, adding more to their plate isn't cool ๐Ÿ˜. So yeah, I think Ben and Roisin need to step up their game - put the bins out on time, and be considerate of those around them ๐Ÿšฎ๐Ÿ’ฏ
 
Ugh, i feel like ben and roisin are being super lazy ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ. i mean, come on guys! leaving the bins out for days is no joke. it's annoying to everyone around them, especially those upstairs neighbours who don't wanna deal with it. i think mo has every right to be frustrated. and yeah, ben says rubbish belongs in the bin, but that's not exactly true ๐Ÿ™„ - if nobody takes care of it, it becomes a bigger problem. anyway, maybe they should just put a reminder on their fridge or something? lol
 
I'm literally livin' in a nightmare over here! I mean, come on Ben and Roisin can't even be bothered to put their own bin back after a day or two?! It's like they think everyone else is gonna magically clean up after them. And don't even get me started on the noise levels when they're not careful with those bins... it's like a whole different world out there ๐Ÿคฏ.

I feel so bad for Mo, he's always trying to keep the peace and make sure his neighbours aren't annoyed, but at the same time he can't just sit back and let Ben and Roisin wreak havoc on their building. It's all about responsibility, people! Taking care of your own stuff is basic human decency ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ.

I gotta say though, I do think Mo might be overreacting a bit (maybe). If it's not like, overflowing bins every single day or something, maybe it's just a minor issue that can get sorted out quickly. But still, there needs to be some accountability here! Ben and Roisin need to step up their game and show their neighbours some respect ๐Ÿšฎ.
 
ugh i feel so much for mo ๐Ÿ™„. ben and roisin are literally being so selfish and inconsiderate here. who cares if its just an extra day or two? that's still a bunch of people having to deal with the stench and mess they made ๐Ÿšฎ๐Ÿ’จ. plus, it's not like ben is exactly setting a great example for his housemates - maybe he should step up his game before expecting them to do the same? mo is right in this case, we need more consideration from our housemates about their impact on others ๐Ÿ˜’.
 
lol i feel mo all the way tho ben and roisin think they can just leave the bins out forever ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ and expect everything to be okay? newsflash: no one likes a stinky bin neighborhood! and i get it, mo wants to keep the peace with the neighbors but come on guys, put the bins back in when you're done or take them out yourself! it's not that hard. ben's argument about "bin in bin, bin in street" is just lazy ๐Ÿ˜ด and not thinking about how his actions affect others. i think mo's right to call them out for being selfish and inconsiderate ๐Ÿ‘Ž
 
OMG ๐Ÿคฏ I'm literally rolling my eyes over here! Like, come on Ben and Roisin, how can you be so thoughtless? Leaving the bins out for days is NOT a big deal?! It's not like it's going to break the bank or something... but noooo, it's causing drama with the neighbors and attracting random people who are just going to throw their trash in there. Ben's comment about "rubbish belongs in the bin" is literally so basic ๐Ÿ˜‚. Can't he see that his actions (or lack thereof) are affecting others?! Mo's right, they're being selfish and inconsiderate. We need more consideration from our housemates, especially when it comes to something as simple as taking out the bins! ๐Ÿ‘
 
idk man... ๐Ÿค” i mean, ben makes a point, but like, isn't just leaving the bins out for a day or two really that bad? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ on the other hand, mo's being kinda dramatic about it too... ๐Ÿ’โ€โ™€๏ธ maybe they should just talk to their neighbours and work something out instead of making a big deal out of it? ๐Ÿค but at the same time, if you're going to leave your bins out for days, shouldn't you be prepared to take care of them yourself? ๐Ÿšฎ ugh, i'm so confused now... ๐Ÿ˜ฉ
 
You know, I was thinking about this whole bin-wrangling situation and it got me wondering... how much are we willing to tolerate in our personal lives before we start affecting those around us? Like, if Ben and Roisin think leaving the bins out for a day or two isn't a big deal, that's their perspective. But what about the people who have to deal with the aftermath - the neighbours who get annoyed because they're not taking responsibility for their own mess?

It's like, we all know that life is messy (pun intended). But do we really need to be reminded of it every single day? I mean, if Mo is being too uptight about it, then maybe Ben and Roisin are just showing him that sometimes you gotta let loose a bit... but on the other hand, if they're not taking care of their own stuff, that's not fair to anyone else.

For me, it's all about finding that balance. I'm not saying Mo should be too harsh or anything, but at the same time, Ben and Roisin need to understand that there are consequences when you don't take responsibility for your actions... even if those actions seem small to some people ๐Ÿค”
 
ugh i'm with mo on this one ๐Ÿ™„ those two are being super irresponsible and selfish. leaving the bins out for days is not just a minor inconvenience, it's an eyesore and a nuisance to everyone around them. ben's argument that "rubbish belongs in the bin" is kinda funny but also doesn't make sense - if you're going to leave the bins out, you need to take responsibility for getting them back in ASAP ๐Ÿšฎ. mo has every right to get annoyed when he's not even there and his neighbours are dealing with the aftermath. i think ben and roisin need to step up their game and be more considerate of others... like, it's not that hard to put the bins out or take them back in when you're leaving the house ๐Ÿ™Œ
 
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