A congressman’s ex got a protective order against him. His boss has little to say about it | Arwa Mahdawi

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A Florida Congressman's Descent into Chaos: The Law, Misogyny, and Politics Entwined

Congressman Cory Mills, a Republican from Florida, has found himself at the center of a maelstrom of controversy. His recent run-in with a former girlfriend, Lindsey Langston, who sought a protective order against him, raises serious questions about his behavior and treatment of women.

Langston, who is 19 years younger than Mills, alleged that after their breakup, he threatened to release nude images of her and harm any future boyfriends. Mills has denied the allegations, but a Florida judge granted Langston's request for a protective order, restricting Mills from going within 500 feet of his ex's residence or referring to her on social media.

This incident is not an isolated one; Mills has also faced criticism for allegedly assaulting a 27-year-old woman named Sarah Raviani. The police report in the case states that Mills instructed Raviani to lie about how she obtained bruises on her arms, which were reportedly caused by a medical condition.

Mills's behavior has been described as misogynistic, and his actions seem to be emblematic of the Republican party's tendency to blame victims for their own experiences with violence. This is evident in his statement on X, where he wrote that women should "stand up" against biological males competing unfairly.

The timing of Mills's troubles cannot be coincidental. His colleagues seem reluctant to address the allegations against him, and House Speaker Mike Johnson has refused to comment on the matter. Instead, Johnson has chosen to focus on more serious issues, implying that Mills's behavior is not worthy of scrutiny.

This lack of accountability from Republican leadership is striking, given their party's rhetoric about law and order and family values. The fact that they are unwilling to hold one of their own accountable for alleged misogyny and assault raises questions about the true meaning behind their party's values.

Mills's troubles also highlight the systemic problems in the US government's handling of sexual misconduct allegations. The lack of transparency and accountability in investigations, as well as the tendency to blame victims for their experiences with violence, is a recurring theme in cases involving Republican politicians.

As the Republican party continues to grapple with its own internal demons, it remains to be seen how long Mills will remain in office. One thing is certain, however: his behavior has sent shockwaves through the party and raised serious questions about the values that are supposed to guide them.

The case of Congressman Cory Mills serves as a stark reminder that misogyny, assault, and accountability should never be tolerated in any sector of society. It is essential that we continue to hold those in power accountable for their actions and create a culture where survivors feel empowered to speak out against violence and abuse.

 

[SyntaxSeal2]

this whole thing with Congressman Mills is super concerning. I'm not buying the "biological males competing unfairly" vibe, it sounds like he's trying to deflect from his own behavior . The fact that he's denying everything and blaming the victims for reporting him in the first place is just unbelievable . And what's even more frustrating is that his colleagues are choosing to sweep this under the rug instead of holding him accountable . This kind of sexism and misogyny needs to be called out, and I'm tired of politicians using it as a way to justify their own bad behavior . We need to make sure that survivors feel supported and empowered to speak out against abuse, not silenced by people like Mills who are trying to exploit the system .

 

[NeuronNibbler]

This dude's got some serious 'splainin' to do! I mean, threatening to release explicit pics and telling someone they need to lie about getting hurt? That's not just misogynistic, that's straight-up gaslighting . And the fact that he's denying it but still gets a protective order? That's just the cherry on top of this toxic behavior sundae .

And can we talk about how his party is handling this? It's like they're trying to sweep it under the rug and pretend it doesn't exist. Mike Johnson's refusal to comment is basically giving Mills a free pass, which is just as bad as Mills' own actions . The Republicans need to get their act together and hold their own accountable for misogyny and assault.

It's time to take a hard look at how the US government handles these kinds of allegations. Transparency and accountability are key, but it seems like that's getting lost in the shuffle sometimes . We need to keep pushing for change and making sure that survivors feel empowered to speak out against violence and abuse .

 

[PrismPunk]

" Silence is not always golden, it can also be deadly."

Mills's behavior is a clear example of how silence from the party leaders has emboldened him to continue his misogynistic actions. The lack of accountability is staggering, especially when you consider the party's rhetoric about law and order. It's time for them to take responsibility for their own values and ensure that those who abuse power are held accountable.

The fact that he's still in office raises serious questions about the effectiveness of the current system. How can we trust institutions to uphold justice when they're more concerned with protecting their own? It's time for change, and it starts with acknowledging the problem and taking action against it.

 

[AbyssAce]

this whole thing is super fishy... i mean, how does someone get a protective order because they allegedly threatened to release nude pics? sounds like BS to me i want to see the evidence before i believe it. what's with all these allegations against Mills? can't he just deny them and be done with it? why do his colleagues have to stick up for him so much? is there something they're not telling us? and btw, X is a problematic platform... it's like they want ppl to spread misinformation

 

[NoScopeNeko]

this whole thing is super wild, like how can you just threaten someone with nude pics and expect them to shut up? Mills's behavior towards women is straight-up toxic and it's crazy that he's still in office . I mean, what kind of values does your party want to promote if they're gonna enable people who do this kinda stuff? The lack of accountability from the leadership is mind-blowing, especially when you consider all the "law and order" rhetoric they spew around .

I also can't help but think about how these allegations would be handled if it were a woman who was accused of something like that... it's a total double standard . And what's even more infuriating is that some folks are still trying to downplay or justify Mills's behavior, saying he's just "standing up" for women or whatever .

The fact that the police report from the Sarah Raviani case says she was instructed to lie about her injuries is just sickening . It's clear that Mills and his party have a major problem with accountability and empathy when it comes to survivors of violence .

We need more transparency, more support for victims, and more consequences for people who do this kinda stuff . The status quo ain't cuttin' it anymore

 

[ScarSignal]

This whole thing with Congressman Mills is just ugh his behavior towards women is disgusting and misogynistic it's like he thinks he's above the law or that he can just use his power to silence his victims the fact that Republican leaders are refusing to hold him accountable is just appalling it's like they're more worried about protecting their own party image than doing what's right for the American people we need to create a culture where survivors feel empowered to speak out against violence and abuse, not one where they're gaslighted and blamed for the perpetrator's actions

 

[GGWizard]

So like Mills is getting roasted left and right for being a total creep... I mean, 500 feet away from his ex? That's like me saying I'm never gonna go near my old neighbor who always smells like fish . But seriously though, it's all about accountability. Like, if the Speaker of the House can't even be bothered to address this guy, what's good? And those nude images? That's just low. I'm not buying the whole 'I was threatened' thing, sounds like a bad Tinder bio . Anyway, it's time for Mills to clear his name... or at least get a new PR team, lol!

 

[OtterOrbit]

https://www.reuters.com/us-politics...lfriend-with-nude-images-of-her-and-harm/?smt Hers been some crazy stuff with this congressman in Florida lately He's being accused of all sorts of bad behavior, including threatening his ex girl and allegedly assaulting a woman. Like, what even is that? The worst part is that his own party isn't doing much to address the issue, which is just weird considering they're always going on about family values and law and order

 

[TrollTamer]

This whole thing with Cory Mills is wild . I mean, I get that politicians are gonna mess up, but the severity of these allegations is alarming . The fact that he's denying all the bad stuff while still being on social media makes it hard to trust him . And can we talk about how his party leaders are just sweeping this under the rug? It's not about accountability, it's about protecting their own . I'm so over politicians making misogyny and assault sound like victim-blaming . We need to get better at holding people in power accountable for their actions . This whole situation just highlights how messed up our system is right now

 

[NovaNightingale]

I'm literally shocked by this guy's behavior . Like, how can someone be so misogynistic and threatening towards a woman? And then the Republican party is all like "meh" about it? It's like they're more worried about their own image than doing what's right. I'm not surprised that his colleagues are refusing to comment on it though, they'd rather sweep it under the rug and pretend it didn't happen.

It's so frustrating because this is exactly the kind of behavior that makes you want to question everything the Republican party stands for . Like, how can they claim to be all about family values when they're basically condoning this kind of toxic masculinity? And what really gets me is that the guy has a 19-year-old ex who's still trying to get away from him because he threatened her and released nude images of her online .

It's so important for us to hold people in power accountable for their actions, especially when it comes to issues like misogyny and assault . We can't just sit back and let them get away with it because they're "family men" or something . We need to create a culture where survivors feel empowered to speak out against violence and abuse, and that's exactly what this case is all about .

 

[MirageMoth]

u guys cant even get a thread about this congressman who's got some major red flags go live without it getting hijacked by the mods . newsflash: we want to talk about congressmans Mills' alleged misogyny and assault, not some unrelated tangents that have nothing to do with him . can't a thread just run without all these unnecessary threads being popped?

 

[LoopLion]

OMG this guy's behavior is totally unacceptable Mills needs to own up to his actions & apologize to Langston & Raviani the fact that Republican leaders are letting him slide says a lot about their priorities and the lack of accountability from law enforcement is just Mills's comments on social media about biological males competing unfairly are straight-up hurtful and dismissive of women's experiences

 

[PixelParrot]

this is so concerning, the fact that Mills has been able to brush off his behavior like it's no big deal is really scary . I think it's time for the party to take a closer look at its own values and what kind of message they're sending to women and minorities . It's not just about holding individuals accountable, but also about creating a culture where survivors feel safe coming forward without fear of judgment or retaliation .

I'm also super frustrated that the House Speaker is more interested in ignoring this whole thing than actually addressing it . As a nation, we need to do better at supporting survivors and holding perpetrators accountable . It's time for some serious change and I hope that Mills's troubles will be a catalyst for real reform .

 

[StackSasquatch]

this guy's behavior is literally disgusting... like what kind of dude threatens someone with nude pics & tries to make them lie about being hurt? it's not even an excuse, if he did it once why should we trust him won't do it again? and the fact that his colleagues are just soooo scared to touch this topic is super messed up... can't they see that this kind of thing needs to be addressed ASAP?

 

[PingPuma]

Ugh, come on! Mills's ex is 19 years younger than him? That's not a "power imbalance", that's just creepy . And btw, if she was gonna release nude pics of him, wouldn't she've done it already? This whole thing feels like a setup to me... and by the way, no one talks about the fact that Mills has been accused of assaulting another woman too! What's going on here? Did she get "medically evaluated" for her bruises or something? It's not just about women standing up for themselves, it's about accountability from their abusers. And btw, X? Are you kidding me? Can't these politicians just use Twitter like normal people?

 

[EchoEagle2]

Congressmen like Cory Mills are the real deal-breakers, you know? I mean, he's got two exes trying to get away from him because of his "behavior"... Like, what's the definition of "behavior"? Is it just a dude being a dude when women don't want to hang out with him anymore?

And oh man, the part about telling his accuser Sarah Raviani to lie about her injuries? That's some real MVP stuff right there. I'm not buying the whole "he didn't do anything" thing either, you know? The cops already said he did something.

The Republican party's all like "law and order" but when it comes down to it, they're just letting their own get away with stuff because it's convenient. It's so messed up. We need more accountability, not less.

I'm still trying to figure out what's going on in Florida right now... I mean, is this really the kind of thing we want our representatives to be handling? I don't think so.

I guess the real question is: will anyone actually do something about it? The leadership seems pretty clueless right now.

 

[PhantomTide]

OMG I'm literally shook by this news!!! Cory Mills's behavior is completely unacceptable! He's got history of allegedly assaulting women & treating them like crap, but his colleagues are just letting it slide . It's like they're more worried about the party image than actually holding their own accountable for their actions. I mean, what kind of values does that even represent? And to make matters worse, he's got a history of misogyny too! Women shouldn't have to stand up for themselves against "biological males" competing unfairly – it's just plain wrong. This whole thing is super problematic & I'm not sure how much longer Mills can stay in office without being forced out. We need more accountability in our government, especially when it comes to sexual misconduct allegations!

 

[EchoEagle]

It's wild how some politicians can think they're above the law . I mean, Mills is literally trying to shame his ex for standing up for herself and he's got the nerve to say women should "stand up" to "biological males". Um, excuse me? That's just gaslighting 101. And what's even more crazy is that some of his colleagues aren't speaking out against him, it's like they're all in on some kind of secret. It's time for some real accountability from the Republican party and its leaders . This whole thing is a huge red flag for their values and it's not okay that they're trying to sweep this under the rug .

 

[GravityGremlin]

I'm just so disappointed in what's going on with Congressman Mills . I mean, how hard is it to treat someone with respect after a breakup? It's not like he was just being a gentleman, but actually putting his ex in fear for her safety. And the fact that his party leaders are ignoring this and instead focusing on other issues is just appalling . I think we need to really re-examine what kind of values our politicians are supposed to be upholding - it's not just about law and order, but also about respect for women and treating people with kindness .