I can't afford to save both twins': Sudan's war left one mother with an impossible choice

HueHavoc

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For two years, the city of Khartoum in Sudan has been ravaged by war. Tanks rolled into neighborhoods, fighter jets soared overhead and civilians were caught in the crossfire, artillery bombardments and drone strikes. Schools, playgrounds, and football pitches are now nothing but ruins, their remnants a haunting reminder of what once was. But amidst the devastation, there's one voice that stands out - 12-year-old Zaher.

Zaher's world has been turned upside down since his family fled their home about 200km south-west of Khartoum in search of safety from fighting between government forces and paramilitary groups known as the Rapid Support Forces. The force took everything they owned, leaving them with nothing but their lives. Zaher and his mother, Habibah, had to sell lentils on the streets just to survive.

One morning, a drone struck while Habibah was working alongside her son. Zaher's legs were badly damaged in the attack. Doctors were able to save his life but not his legs. Both were amputated below the knee, leaving him with no prosthetic limbs and facing an uncertain future.

Habibah says she wishes she could have traded her own life for Zaher's, a common sentiment among Sudanese mothers of children injured in the conflict. But doctors say there are other ways to help them.

At school, Zaher clings to his football dreams despite having lost the use of both legs. His classmates play on without him but they're still playing, albeit slowly and with difficulty.

"I wish they could just fix me," Zaher says. "So I could walk home and go to school." But for now, he's left limping on his knees, watching his friends laugh and play football as if nothing had changed.

The trauma is far-reaching, affecting not only Zaher but the entire community. Children have been forced to drop out of school due to fear or financial constraints. Families are torn apart by displacement and violence. The war has stolen their childhoods, leaving them with an uncertain future.

As schools reopen in Sudan's shattered cities, there's a glimmer of hope for these young minds to rediscover the joy of learning. But without safe places to play and grow, it seems that some wounds will never fully heal.
 
man this war is having such a huge impact on these kids... 12-year-old Zaher's story is just heartbreaking πŸ’”. I can only imagine how scary it must be for him to lose his legs in a drone attack 🀯. and now he's stuck with no prosthetic limbs, facing an uncertain future that's so unfair. πŸ˜”

it's not just Zaher though, the entire community is suffering... kids dropping out of school, families torn apart... this war is like, totally destroying childhoods 🌫️. and it's not just the physical harm, it's the emotional trauma too... I'm sure Zaher's mom wishes she could've given her life for him 😭.

but despite all this, there's still hope 🌞. schools reopening and kids getting to rediscover learning... that's a start πŸ“š. we need more than just that though, we need safe places for these kids to grow and play too 🏫. it's like, we can't fix the wounds completely but we can try to help them heal, right? πŸ’•
 
🀯 Can you believe this kid Zaher has been through? 12 years old & already lost both legs in a drone strike πŸ’₯. His whole world is shattered & he's just trying to hold on to his dreams of playing football again 🏟️. It's heartbreaking to see him limping around, watching others have fun without him πŸ˜”. We need to do more to help these kids get back on their feet (literally) πŸ’ͺ. The schools reopening is a good start but what about the playfields & sports facilities? That's where the real healing happens πŸ₯. We can't just focus on education alone, we gotta give them a chance to be kids again 😊.
 
😩 man this is so heartbreaking what kinda world do we live in where kids have to lose limbs just to survive & then they're expected to pick up their lives like nothing happened πŸ€• can't we just fix the problem instead of messing around with band-aids πŸ€‘ schools should be safe spaces for kids not places where they get hurt or forced to drop out πŸ«πŸ’”
 
Ugh, my heart goes out to this kid Zaher πŸ€•... I mean, can you even imagine having to watch your friends play football while you're stuck on the sidelines with no legs? It's just not fair 😩. The way his family was forced to flee their home and lose everything is just heartbreaking. And now he's dealing with the trauma of a drone attack that nearly took his life 🚨.

I think it's so inspiring that Zaher still holds onto his dreams, though πŸ’ͺ... who knows what's going to happen for him in the future? Maybe he'll find a way to adapt and thrive despite everything. But for now, I just want to give this poor kid a big hug πŸ€—... we should be doing more to help these families and kids affected by war!
 
πŸ€” This war is like a super dark experiment on humanity, you feel? First, they take away your home & livelihoods, then they try to kill you with drones πŸš€. And now this kid Zaher's all messed up, can't even walk without pain. It's crazy how the world just ignores these kids while their parents struggle to survive πŸ’”. I mean, where are the safe zones for these families? Can't the international community do something about it? This war's gonna keep going on & on... 🚫
 
I don't know why everyone's making such a big deal about kids like Zaher getting hurt in this war πŸ€”... I mean, war's not exactly new, right? And people get hurt all the time. It's just part of it, you know? Can we talk about something else for a sec? Like how schools are reopening and stuff is finally starting to calm down? Let's focus on the positives here πŸ’‘. And honestly, I'm kinda tired of hearing about kids who got hurt in war. It feels like all anyone wants to do is talk about their suffering πŸ€•. Can't we celebrate their resilience instead? 😊
 
Man, this kid Zaher is literally living proof that war doesn't just destroy buildings and infrastructure, but it also rips away at the very essence of childhood itself πŸ€•. He's still got his football dreams, but it's like, what even is a 'dream' when you're stuck on the sidelines watching everyone else live their best lives? It makes me think about how we value our youth and whether we're doing enough to support them during times of conflict... I mean, schools reopening sounds great, but are they really equipped to provide safe spaces for kids like Zaher to heal and grow? We can't just wish him back to normal, we gotta make sure the system is in place to help these kids recover from trauma 🀝
 
πŸ€• the thing is, i think this is what happens when we dont prioritize our kids' happiness... like, zaher's still holding on to his football dreams even though it might not be possible for him anymore. but we shouldnt just focus on individual goals, we should also think about how we can make things easier for everyone else. schools reopen and all, but what about the playgrounds? or the parks where kids can play without fear of getting hurt? that's like, super important too... i mean, it's not just about Zaher, it's about creating a safe space for all these kids to grow up and have fun 🏞️
 
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