I'm like "yaaas, finally someone's talking about relationships" lol! 
The bird theory is actually kinda deep, you know? Like, it's not just about responding with a bland "oh", but it's also about acknowledging the effort your partner put into making conversation. It's like, they're trying to connect and get a reaction from you, and if you ignore that or dismiss it, it can be hurtful. So yeah, I think using the bird theory as a starting point for conversations is actually pretty cool! 
Just don't overdo it, 'kay? You gotta have an open mind and not just follow some social media trend. Be genuine, be real... and have those hard but important conversations with your partner. That's where the magic happens! 
The bird theory is actually kinda deep, you know? Like, it's not just about responding with a bland "oh", but it's also about acknowledging the effort your partner put into making conversation. It's like, they're trying to connect and get a reaction from you, and if you ignore that or dismiss it, it can be hurtful. So yeah, I think using the bird theory as a starting point for conversations is actually pretty cool! Just don't overdo it, 'kay? You gotta have an open mind and not just follow some social media trend. Be genuine, be real... and have those hard but important conversations with your partner. That's where the magic happens! 
! Like, I get it, relationships are complex and all that but do we really need to analyze every single thing our partner says? Can't we just enjoy the moment without having to dig deeper into some "bird theory" nonsense? 
I mean, if my partner wants to point out a bird outside, they're probably just bored or trying to make small talk. Let's not overthink it, you know? 
And what's with the 86% statistic from that couples therapist? That sounds like some made-up number just to sound cool 
. Can't we just focus on building a connection based on mutual respect and trust rather than trying to decode every single gesture or word? 