Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

In recent years, as more people have become aware of the emotional significance of their relationships with pets, public pet cemeteries have gained popularity. These spaces allow pet owners to pay their respects and find closure after losing a beloved companion.

The idea of burying our pets in a cemetery is not new. In fact, some cities have been offering this service for over 100 years. For example, London's Hyde Park Pet Cemetery was established in 1881, while New York's Hartsdale pet cemetery was founded in 1896. However, it wasn't until recently that the city of Barcelona announced plans to open its first public pet cemetery.

Eric Tourigny, a lecturer in historical archaeology at Newcastle University, believes that this development is significant because it reflects changing attitudes towards human-animal relationships. "The Spanish city of Barcelona recently announced that it will be investing in the establishment of the country's first public pet cemetery," he notes. "Set to open next year, it will offer both burials and cremations – with an estimated 7,000 carried out each year."

For Tourigny, this news came as a shock because Barcelona is a densely populated city with limited privately owned land. However, the councilor for climate emergency and ecological transition, Eloi Badia, believes that there was "constant public demand" for the service. The fact that many families in Barcelona own pets and that pet cemeteries are already available through private companies suggests that this is a growing trend.

Historically, pet cemeteries have been around since the late 19th century. Britain's first public pet cemetery appeared in London's Hyde Park in 1881. However, what is remarkable about modern pet cemeteries is not just their existence but also the heartbreak and taboos surrounding grieving for animals.

Tourigny's research suggests that over time, our ways of treating our animal dead reflect an even closer relationship in life. "The connection that someone has with their pet can be just as strong and just as significant as their relationships with other humans," he notes. Yet today, individuals continue to struggle to find the appropriate outlet to express their pain.

The RSPCA reassures the public on its website that there should be no shame in grieving for a beloved pet. Charities like the Blue Cross and Rainbow Bridge Pet Loss Grief Center offer counseling to bereaved humans.

While Barcelona's new cemetery will provide an opportunity for many pet owners to say goodbye, it is not without cost. At an estimated €200 ($217) per service, this space will not be accessible to everyone in the city. However, online forums and digital pet cemeteries offer other options for pet owners who cannot afford or do not want to use a physical cemetery.

Ultimately, whether one chooses a pet cemetery or not, there are many acceptable ways to express grief and remember our relationships with important animals in our lives.
 
I think it's really cool that Barcelona is finally setting up a public pet cemetery 🐾💕. I mean, we've all lost a beloved furry friend at some point, right? It's about time we had a place to go and pay our respects 💔. I love how they're offering both burials and cremations - it really shows that they understand the needs of pet owners 😊. Of course, €200 is a bit steep for some people, but online options and digital cemeteries are great alternatives 📱💻. It's amazing to see how our attitudes towards human-animal relationships have changed over time... now we're more open to talking about grief and loss 💬. Whatever way you choose to say goodbye, it's all about finding closure and remembering the good times with your furry friends 🐾❤️
 
I think it's awesome that Barcelona is opening its first public pet cemetery 🐾💕. It shows how people are becoming more aware of their emotional connections with pets and want to find closure after losing a beloved companion. I mean, who hasn't felt the pain of saying goodbye to a furry friend? 🤗 But at the same time, it's also worth mentioning that not everyone can afford the €200 per service, so there should be more affordable options available 🤑. Maybe online forums and digital cemeteries could be an alternative for those who can't use physical spaces. Either way, I think this is a great step towards normalizing our emotions around pet loss and providing more support for people dealing with grief 😊.
 
people's love for their pets is getting stronger i guess 🐾❤️ its like we're realizing that our furry friends are more than just companions, they're family members too! but you know what's sad? how expensive it can be to say goodbye to them 💸€200 a pop is not cheap. maybe thats why digital pet cemeteries are becoming popular online forums and virtual memorial spaces can provide an affordable outlet for grieving pet owners 🌐💻
 
I gotta say, I'm loving the idea of having a proper place to mourn our furry friends 🐾💔. It's crazy how much it's grown since those first pet cemeteries in London back in 1881... and now we've got Barcelona opening its own! Can you believe it? But what really gets me is how this reflects how close we get with our pets - I mean, some people even freak out when they lose them 🤯. It's like, yeah, there are gonna be tears shed over those little faces (and big ones too). €200 for a burial service might seem steep, but at least it's an option for those who can afford it... and online cemeteries are still around if you're on a budget 🤑. Just hope they've got some decent wifi out there so people can pay their respects virtually 💻👍
 
I'm literally sobbing over this, you guys!! 🤕😭 It's about time we acknowledge the depth of human emotions for our furry friends... like, seriously, can you imagine losing your pet and not having a safe space to say goodbye? 🌳💔 Those public pet cemeteries are going to be a game-changer for so many families. I mean, think about it, pets have this way of bringing us into their world, and when they're gone, we feel like something's missing... like our heart is literally torn out 😓.

And can we talk about how stigmatized pet loss has been in the past? Like, it was considered taboo or weird to grieve for a pet. But now, with all these charities offering counseling and support, it's finally okay to feel those emotions. 🌈💖 I'm so excited for Barcelona to have its very own public pet cemetery - it's going to be such a beautiful space where people can come together and honor their beloved pets.

Of course, the price tag is a bit of a bummer... €200 is still a lot of money for many families. But hey, online forums and digital pet cemeteries are offering alternative options, so that's something. 🤝💻 What I love most about this is that it shows how much our relationships with animals have evolved over time... like, we used to just bury them in a hole in the backyard, now we're creating beautiful spaces for our pets to rest in peace 😊💕.

I'm literally so grateful for this development - it's going to make such a difference in so many people's lives. Can't wait to visit that cemetery when it opens next year 💗🌼
 
I think its kinda cool that ppl r finding new ways 2 deal w/ losin a furry friend 🐾💔. Public pet cemeteries offer a space 4 pet owners 2 pay their respects & find closure. Its not just about throwin away the body, its about honorin the bond u had w/ ur pet. I can imagine it gets emotional for some people... but hey, grief is a process 😊. Not everyone can afford €200 but theres always online options or digital cemeteries 2 choose from. Its all about finding what works 4 u & ur feelings 🤗
 
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