Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

In recent years, it has become increasingly common for people to bury their deceased pets in cemeteries, often alongside those of their human loved ones. While it may seem like a strange practice, this trend is rooted in a deep emotional connection between humans and animals. As Eric Tourigny, a lecturer in historical archaeology, notes, the burial of pets is an "intimate cultural practice" that reflects changing attitudes towards human-animal relationships over time.

Historical records show that people have been burying their pets for centuries, with evidence dating back to 19th-century Britain. During this era, gravestones often featured epitaphs such as "loving friend" or "devoted companion," indicating that pets were considered important companions rather than mere animals. However, it wasn't until the early 20th century that graves began to feature more overtly familial language, with inscriptions like "Mummy and Daddy's dear pet."

Today, pets are increasingly regarded as members of the family, and their burial is often treated with the same respect and ritual as human funerals. In fact, some jurisdictions have begun to allow the co-burial of cremated animals and people, leading to a blurring of boundaries between human and animal death rites.

Despite the growing acceptance of pet burials, many people struggle to find ways to express their grief in public. The stigma surrounding animal loss can be overwhelming, and individuals may feel forced to hide their emotions or resort to more private forms of mourning, such as keeping cremated remains at home or scattering ashes in a meaningful location.

The establishment of public pet cemeteries like Barcelona's new facility offers a welcome solution for those seeking a structured outlet for their grief. These spaces provide a sense of closure and community, allowing people to pay their respects to beloved animals alongside other mourners.

However, the financial burden of attending such a service may be prohibitive for some families. The estimated €200 ($217) cost per service will undoubtedly limit access to this form of mourning for many pet owners in Barcelona.

Ultimately, while the burial of pets is not universally accepted or accessible, it reflects a deeper emotional connection between humans and animals that transcends species boundaries. As our understanding and acceptance of human-animal relationships evolve, so too must our rituals and traditions around death and mourning.
 
I think its really cool that people are getting more accepting of burying their pets in cemeteries 🐾💀. Its like they're acknowledging the strong bond we have with our fur babies, you know? But at the same time, I get why some pet owners might not be able to afford these services... €200 is a pretty penny 💸. Maybe theres a way for cities to make it more affordable, like offering discounts or financial assistance programs? That would be amazing 👍. Anyway, its just so sad when we lose our pets and can't express our grief in the way that feels right 🤕. These public pet cemeteries are definitely a step in the right direction 🌟.
 
so like, I'm really glad we're having more pet cemeteries now 🐾💕 but €200 is kinda steep for some people's budgets... I mean, can't they offer cheaper options or something? like, I get that it's a big deal for people to grieve and all, but it feels kinda unfair that only the wealthy ones can afford to say goodbye in style 💸. I guess it just shows how our attitudes towards animals are changing and we're getting more emotional about losing them 🐾😔
 
I think its really beautiful how people are getting back to burying their pets. Its like they're giving them a proper goodbye & remembering the good times u had w/ ur furry friends 💕. We shud be more open about our emotions when it comes 2 losing our pets, instead of hiding them or throwing a party. It could b a great way 2 cope w/ grief & find some comfort in knowing we can celebrate their life too 🐾💔.
 
Its crazy how much people love their pets like they're family 🐾💕. I mean, who wouldn't wanna lay their fave pup or kitty to rest with the humans in a cemetery? Its not just about showing respect, its about feelin all the feels when you lose 'em 💔. And yeah, the financial thing is gonna be a problem for some people, but its worth it to have somethin special to honor their memory. Maybe instead of cemeteries, we could have more pet-friendly memorials or parks where ppl can go and remember their loved ones in peace 🌳💕.
 
I remember when I was a kid, my grandma used to tell me stories about her cat's grave at the park 🐈💔. She'd take me there every now and then to leave some flowers or just sit in silence. It's crazy how much it's changed over the years. Now they're having public pet cemeteries? That's like, a whole new thing! I mean, I get it, pets are family too, but €200 for a service is a bit steep, you know? My aunt used to scatter her dog's ashes in the lake and that was fine by me. But hey, at least people can finally find some closure and respect for their furry friends. And who knows, maybe this trend will spread and we'll see more pet-friendly funeral homes popping up 🤞🏼💕
 
I think its kinda sweet how people are treating their pets like family members now 🐈💕. I mean, we've always had a special bond with animals, but it's amazing how far society has come in accepting that. Those pet cemeteries are probably really helpful for people who want to say goodbye properly 🌼. But €200 is a pretty steep price tag, you know? Can't they just make it more affordable somehow? 💸 I also wonder if this trend will spread to other countries... do people in other places already bury their pets in cemeteries too? 🤔
 
I'm curious about this pet cemetery thing... like, in my country we just scatter ashes in the park or keep them at home, I never thought that would be a problem for some people 🤔. The €200 fee seems kinda steep though... can you imagine having to spend that much on a service for your furry friend? 💸 And what about all the other costs of owning a pet, like vet bills and food? Shouldn't we prioritize animal welfare over funeral costs? 🐾💕
 
🐾💔 I think its so cool how people are making space for pets to have their own little resting places 💕 especially in these new public pet cemeteries! Its not just about the money tho 🤑 its also about feelin like you gotta be with your furry fam member when they pass on 👫🐶 Like, I know its not the same as losin a human but pets are like our babies too ❤️ and we should be able to grieve in whatever way feels right for us 💖
 
I mean, who can blame people for wanting to give their pets a proper burial? 🐾💔 It's like they're part of the family, you know? I've seen some crazy stuff online where pet owners just scatter ashes in weird places or keep cremated remains at home... it's just not right. A public cemetery is a great idea, but €200 is kinda steep for many people 🤑. Still, it's nice to see that more and more places are recognizing the importance of pet loss. I've lost a few pets myself over the years, and I know how hard it can be to deal with grief. It's not just about humans anymore; our furry friends deserve some respect too 💕.
 
i feel like its super natural to see ppl grieving for their pets like they're family 🐾💔 the way we do with humans is weirdly similar but on a smaller scale - i mean, remember all those pet gravestones in 19th-century britain? "loving friend" and "devoted companion"? that's some deep emotional connection right there 💕

but yeah, it can be tough for ppl to find ways to grieve publicly without feeling weird or judged 🤷‍♀️. thats why public pet cemeteries like barcelona's new one are so cool - they offer a sense of closure and community which is super important when you're losing a furry friend 😔

the thing that gets me is how stigmatized animal loss can be 🚫. ppl often feel forced to hide their emotions or go private with cremation/ashes in the backyard... it's like, why cant we just acknowledge our feelings and grieve together as a community? 🤝
 
I think its pretty cool how people are starting to take pet burials more seriously now 🐾💕. I mean, who doesn't want to give their furry friend a proper sendoff? But yeah, €200 is still kinda steep for a lot of families. I remember when my grandma passed away and we had to pay like, thousands for the funeral... it's just not fair that pets have to go through the same thing 🤔. And what about all the people who can't afford it? Do they just have to say goodbye in private or something? It feels like there should be more options available for pet owners who are struggling with grief 💔.
 
I'm a bit worried about those pet owners who can't afford the €200 fee 🤑. I mean, it's already tough enough dealing with the loss of a beloved pet without having to shell out that kinda cash 💸. Can't we find a way to make these services more accessible? Like, maybe non-profit organizations or something? 🤔 Would be super helpful for people who want to honor their furry friends properly 💕
 
🐾😔 the more i see about ppl buryin their pets in cemeteries, the more it feels like just another example of how humans are losin our grip on reality 🤯 we're talkin 'bout burials that cost 200 bucks, which is a pretty penny for somethin' thats not even human 😅 and dont even get me started on the stigma around animal loss – its already hard enough dealin with grief without havin to hide it behind some awkward euphemism 🤷‍♂️
 
I'm still unsure about people putting their dead pets in cemeteries... I mean, sure they're a part of the family and all, but it's just a pet 🤔. It feels like we're getting too attached to them. And what about when you have kids? Are they gonna start expecting a funeral for Fido when he dies too? 😂 It's not about the money though, €200 is a lot for some people... I'm good with cremation and scattering ashes in a park or something. But hey, if it makes you feel better to bury your pet, then go for it 🐾💀
 
I don’t usually comment but I think it’s really beautiful that people are finding ways to honor their pets in this way 🐾💔. It's like, we're finally acknowledging that animals play such a huge role in our lives and that they leave a void when they're gone 💀. And yeah, the cost of these services might be a bit much for some people, but I think it's worth it to have a place where you can feel like you're surrounded by others who understand what you're going through 🤝. It's not just about the pet, it's about the memories and the emotions that come with losing a loved one... err, furry friend 😊.
 
I think its great how pet burials are becoming more accepted, but €200 is a bit steep for some people 🤑. I've seen videos of public pet cemeteries where ppl gather to pay respects, it looks like a beautiful space for grieving families to find comfort in together 💔. It's not just about the price though, its also about how we treat our pets - they are family too, right? And co-burial is already happening in some places, so maybe we'll see more acceptance and understanding soon 🤞.
 
I feel bad for those who can't afford to attend these public pet cemeteries 🤕, €200 is a lot of money for many people, especially when you're grieving the loss of a beloved pet 🐾💔. Can't we find ways to make it more accessible? Like, maybe some community centers or non-profits could offer free or low-cost services? Or even just online platforms where people can share their memories and photos of their pets after passing away 📸😢. It's not about trying to erase the stigma around pet loss, but finding ways to make it more inclusive and affordable for everyone ❤️
 
I think its awesome that people are getting more comfortable with burying their pets in cemeteries 🐾💔, but €200 is a pretty steep price tag for some families 🤑... how many pet owners can afford that? maybe we need to find ways to make it more affordable or accessible? 🤔
 
its so cool how people are finally accepting that their pets r part of the fam 🐾💕 i mean, its not like they're just animals anymore, we gotta treat them with respect & care even after they pass on 🌹🏠 think about all those ppl who are struggling 2 express themselves when they lose a pet, but now we got public cemeteries & spaces where they can come together & grieve 🤗👫 200 bucks might seem like alot, but its worth it 4 some families who wanna celebrate their pets life in a special way 💖
 
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