Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

As we reflect on our own mortality, it's natural to wonder what happens to those who leave us too soon - whether they be human family members or beloved pets. For centuries, humans have found solace in burying their dead, creating a sacred space for the living and the dead to coexist. But what about when the dearly departed are not human, but our furry friends?

The introduction of pet cemeteries is a relatively recent phenomenon, with Britain's first public pet cemetery appearing in London's Hyde Park in 1881. However, it wasn't until the early 20th century that pets began to be regarded as members of the family, with epitaphs on gravestones referencing "Mummy and Daddy" or other familial language.

The practice of burying our pets has evolved over time, reflecting changing attitudes towards human-animal relationships. In some cases, it's a personal and intimate ritual, with owners opting for a dedicated burial plot and even writing their own epitaphs. For instance, the story of Denny, a "brave little cat" buried in an east London cemetery in 1952, who was given a heartfelt goodbye by his owners, who wrote on his tombstone "God bless until we meet again."

Today, as our understanding of human-animal bonds grows, so too does the acceptance of rituals to commemorate these relationships. Charities like the Blue Cross and Rainbow Bridge Pet Loss Grief Center offer counseling services for bereaved pet owners, recognizing that grief can be just as intense as it is for those who lose loved ones.

The new public pet cemetery in Barcelona is set to open next year, offering both burials and cremations. While an estimated 7,000 pets will be buried there each year, the cost of €200 ($217) per service may be out of reach for some pet owners. Nevertheless, this facility represents a significant step towards normalizing our acceptance of the importance of these relationships.

Online forums, digital pet cemeteries, and even memorial services offer alternative ways to honor and remember our pets after they've passed on. Ultimately, whether we choose a traditional pet cemetery or opt for more modern alternatives, it's clear that humans are increasingly recognizing the value and significance of their bonds with animals.

As Eric Tourigny, a lecturer in historical archaeology, notes, "The connection that someone has with their pet can be just as strong and just as significant as their relationships with other humans." By acknowledging this, we can begin to create spaces where we can express our grief and pay tribute to the memories of those who have touched our lives.

In an era where acceptance of human-animal relationships is growing, it's heartening to see pet cemeteries popping up across Europe and North America. These institutions serve as a testament to the enduring power of love and compassion between humans and animals - a bond that transcends species and speaks directly to the very heart of our humanity.
 
i think its cool that we're gettin more aware of our emotional connections with pets 🐾💕 they're not just part of the family, they're like, an integral part of it 😂 my friend lost her poodle a few yrs ago and it was so sad, but also really beautiful how everyone came together to pay their respects, even made a little memorial for the pup 🤗 its not just about burials or cremations though, its about how we grieve & remember our furry friends 💔 i mean, have you seen those digital pet cemeteries? they're super cool! 🖥️ and yeah, €200 might be out of reach 4 some ppl, but its a start, rite? 💸
 
I'm so down for this! Pet cemeteries are like, totally becoming more accepted now. I mean, who wouldn't want a special spot to honor their furry bestie? 🐾💔 It's beautiful that we're recognizing the impact pets have on our lives and wanting to hold onto those memories. €200 might be a bit steep for some, but it's all about making the most of your time with them while you can. I've seen so many online forums and memorial services where people share their stories and photos with their pets... it's like we're creating a whole new community of pet lovers supporting each other through tough times 🤝💕
 
🐾💔 I'm all for these new pet cemeteries! It's like, we're finally recognizing that our furry friends are more than just pets, they're family 💕. I mean, who needs a fancy house when you can have a dedicated plot in the ground to say goodbye? 🌳 It's about respecting their memory and honoring the bond we shared. I've lost my own pup a few years ago and it was tough, but having a digital pet cemetery or online memorial has been super helpful 💻. I'm stoked that Barcelona is opening up one of these places soon - it's a step in the right direction towards accepting our animal companions as part of our families 🌈. Let's keep spreading love and compassion for all creatures, big and small 🐶🐱 #PetCemeteriesMatter #AnimalLovers #LoveCompassionUnite
 
omg u know i'm literally so down for this new pet cemetery in barcelona 🤩🐾💕 like we've come a looong way in recognising the importance of our furry friends 💗 it's so cool that charities r now offerin grief counseling services for pet owners too 🙏 their bond is just as strong as ours with humans, u feel? 🐈🤝 the €200 price tag might be a lil steep 4 some tho 🤑 but overall i'm just here 4 the vibes of it all 💖 pet cemeteries r like, the ultimate symbol of love & loyalty 🙌
 
I'm so glad we're finally acknowledging that pets are part of the fam 🐾💕. I mean, think about it, we spend just as much time with them, love them just as much, and lose them way too soon 💔. It's only natural that we want to give them a proper sendoff or a special place to rest in peace 🌼. I'm all for the pet cemetery trend - it's like, our furry friends are part of the family, after all 👪. And can you imagine how overwhelming it must be for people who've lost a pet? It's great that there are services like the Blue Cross and Rainbow Bridge Pet Loss Grief Center to help them cope with their grief 🌟.

And yeah, €200 might be a bit steep for some pet owners, but I think it's worth it for those who can afford it. It's not just about the cost; it's about showing respect and compassion for our pets. I mean, we'd want to do the same for humans if they were in the same situation, right? 🤝
 
🐾💕 I mean, think about it, we spend so much time with our pets, sharing our lives with them, loving them unconditionally... they're more than just furry friends, they're part of the family! 🤝 It's only natural that we want to give them a proper sendoff when they pass on. And let's be real, it's not like we're going to forget about Denny 😔. I've lost pets before and it's one of the toughest things you'll ever go through. But having these options available now is amazing! 🌟 It's all about showing respect for their memory and acknowledging the love we shared with them. And yeah, €200 might seem like a lot, but trust me, it's worth it. ❤️
 
Dude, have you seen this new pet cemetery in Barcelona 🐾? I mean, it's like they're trying to make us acknowledge how much we really care about those furry friends 🤯. It's not just about burying them, it's a whole experience - they've got epitaphs, counseling services... it's all so legit! 💸 But what if it's just a ploy by the pet food industry to sell more cremation services? I mean, €200 per service is pretty steep for some people 🤑. And have you seen those online forums and digital pet cemeteries? It's like they're trying to normalize the whole "pet as family member" vibe. But what about the real reason behind it all? Is it just a way to make us feel better when we lose our pets, or is there something more sinister going on? 🤔
 
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