The one change that worked: I had terrible insomnia – until I hit upon a gory solution

For years, I'd resigned myself to being one of those people who couldn't sleep - a perpetual Rubik's cube puzzle with no solution in sight. Despite trying every trick in the book, from herbal teas to expensive supplements, my brain would never shut down. Instead, it seemed to fuel my insomnia like gasoline to a fire. The more I stressed about falling asleep, the more elusive it became.

One evening, as I lay awake staring at the ceiling, something clicked. It was then that I realized I'd been approaching sleep all wrong. All those books on mindfulness and relaxation techniques had done little to calm my racing thoughts. Maybe the problem wasn't finding inner peace; maybe it was just letting go of my need for control altogether.

I found myself drawn to true crime podcasts, a genre I never thought I'd be interested in. But as I delved into their dark world of crimes and conspiracies, something strange happened - I started to relax. My brain, once racing with anxiety and stress, began to slow down, absorbing the endless narrative without really thinking about it.

It wasn't until the next morning that I realized just how engrossed I'd become: completely absorbed in a story of brutal murder on a college campus, my eyes glued to the screen as the words blurred together. And then, suddenly, I was asleep. Not because I'd achieved some sort of zen-like state, but because I'd stopped trying so hard.

This epiphany made me realize that many of us approach sleep with all the pressure and expectation of a high-stakes exam or a performance review. We put too much mental effort into it, stressing over every little thing until we're wide awake again. But what if the real key to sleep was not relaxation, but distraction? Not trying so hard, but stopping altogether.

The truth is, true crime podcasts are not exactly the most relaxing medium - they're dark, gritty, and can be downright gruesome. But for me, that's precisely what worked. By immersing myself in their narrative, I somehow found a sense of calm that eluded me through all other means. Maybe it's because true crime stories are so engrossing, requiring the listener to shut down their critical thinking and just absorb the story.

Whatever the reason, this strange solution has worked for me - and I suspect, many others too. By embracing our dark side - the kind of darkness that keeps us up at night, listening to podcasts about brutal murders or gruesome crimes - we might just find ourselves drifting off into a deep, restorative sleep.
 
😴👀 I never thought I'd say this but true crime podcasts can be super calming? Like, for me it's all about stopping my brain from overthinking and trying too hard to relax. If you're one of those people like me who can't shut off your mind before bed, maybe give a dark podcast a try 📻👂 I mean, they might not be the most conventional solution but hey, it works for some people! 😊 And honestly, who needs calm and peaceful when you can just zone out on a gruesome murder story instead? 😴😂
 
🤯 I think this is so interesting! I've been there with insomnia too, feeling like my brain's a jumbled mess and I'll never figure it out 🧩. But maybe the key isn't finding inner peace, but just giving up control for once? 😂 It sounds crazy, but if distractions like true crime podcasts work for some people, that's def worth trying! What do you guys think - is our brain wired to seek out stress and anxiety, or can we really find calm in dark places? 🤔💤
 
I'm all about getting my thoughts in order before bed 💤. I've tried everything from meditation apps to scented candles, but the key to a good night's sleep for me is finding something that completely distracts me from the day's stress 📚. For some people, it might be reading a book or taking a warm bath – for others, it might be true crime podcasts (shh, don't tell anyone I'm obsessed with those too 😂). The point is, we shouldn't put so much pressure on ourselves to relax before bed and instead focus on finding something that takes our minds off the day's worries. It just makes sense to me that a good night's sleep is all about letting go of control and embracing our darker side – who knew darkness could be so therapeutic? 🌑
 
I think this is so relatable for parents like me who are always on edge 🤯. I mean, have you ever tried to wind down after a long day of parenting only to be bombarded by notifications and worries about your kid's bedtime? It's like trying to shut off a faucet that just won't turn off 💧! But this article made me realize that maybe we're approaching sleep all wrong too. We need to find ways to distract ourselves from our kids' (and our own) anxieties, rather than stressing about it even more 😬. For me, it's been listening to true crime podcasts (don't tell my kid 😂) or watching funny YouTube videos that help me unwind. It's not the most conventional solution, but hey, if it works for me, why not? 🤷‍♀️
 
Ugh, I'm so over how Apple's new Focus mode is still a total mess 🤯😡. Like, I get it, they want to help us stay on track and avoid distractions, but noooo, they go and make the notification system all obnoxious and loud 🔊🚫. Can't we just have a simple, quiet way to block out all the noise for like 2 hours without having to dig through every single app and settings? 🤦‍♀️ It's so frustrating when I'm trying to concentrate on something important and my phone just keeps interrupting me with silly memes and cat videos 🐈😹. Come on, Apple, get it together! 💪
 
I gotta say, this is actually kinda genius! 😊 Think about it, our brains are wired to respond to threats, and true crime stories are basically the ultimate threat, right? So instead of trying to relax, you're giving your brain something to process and deal with - it's like your brain is saying "ok, I've got this" and then just shuts down. It's not about finding inner peace or whatever, it's about acknowledging that sometimes your brain needs a distraction from all the stress and anxiety we pile on ourselves. And honestly, who doesn't love a good whodunit? 🤔
 
I'm not sure if this is the best idea but maybe we can try something like that 😴. I mean, have you ever listened to one of those true crime podcasts and felt so relaxed? 🤔 It sounds weird because they're about gruesome crimes and all, but for some people (like our writer), it actually works. Maybe it's because our brains are wired to focus on stories with a clear beginning and end, like a podcast episode, rather than trying to relax into some kind of peaceful state. I'm not saying it's a cure-all for insomnia or anything, but if you're lying awake at night stressing about sleep, you might want to give true crime podcasts a try 😂.
 
🤯 I'm loving this game-changing idea! 📺 True crime podcasts being the secret to sleep? Mind blown! 😴 I've been trying out some of these podcasts myself and it's amazing how engaging they are! The darkness doesn't even bother me - in fact, it's kinda cathartic. I think we've all been too caught up in trying to relax that we forgot about the power of distraction. Just letting go of our need for control and embracing the weird stuff is like a magic pill for sleep 😴💤
 
I'm telling ya, this is like something the gov't doesn't want you to know... all these years they've been pushing relaxation techniques and mindfulness, but what if that's not the answer? What if our brains are wired differently, and we just need to get lost in something dark and crazy to finally shut down? I mean, think about it, true crime podcasts have become super popular in recent years, and it's like everyone's suddenly fascinated with the darker side of human nature... Coincidence? 🤔👀
 
I found this article super relatable lol 😂 I've always been one of those people who tries every trick in the book to fall asleep but nothing works until I started binge listening to true crime podcasts 🤯 They're like an addiction or something! But seriously though, it makes total sense that we need some distraction from our minds before we can relax. It's not always easy for me to shut off my brain when I'm stressed out but finding a good podcast to get lost in has been a lifesaver 😴
 
I'm telling you, this is like a perfect storm of capitalist control over our personal lives 🤯. We're forced to constantly produce (in this case, stress) and conform to societal norms (aka try every relaxation technique under the sun). But what if we flipped that script? What if instead of trying to relax, we just accepted that sleep is not a high-stakes exam and let our minds wander into true crime territory 📻. It's like a beautiful example of how our individual freedoms are curtailed by societal expectations. We're told what we should be interested in (mindfulness, self-care) and what we shouldn't be (dark, gritty media). But what if we took matters into our own hands and found our own solutions? 🤔 It's all about choice and control - or lack thereof.
 
[Image of a Rubik's cube with the pieces all falling into place](https://i.imgur.com/5f6RJ2p.gif) [Image of a true crime podcast listener snuggled up in bed](https://i.imgur.com/M7wzgKQ.png) [Image of a brain with a "thinking" lightbulb being replaced by a "sleeping" lightbulb](https://i.imgur.com/LFm3rXk.gif)
 
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