For years, I'd resigned myself to being one of those people who couldn't sleep - a perpetual Rubik's cube puzzle with no solution in sight. Despite trying every trick in the book, from herbal teas to expensive supplements, my brain would never shut down. Instead, it seemed to fuel my insomnia like gasoline to a fire. The more I stressed about falling asleep, the more elusive it became.
One evening, as I lay awake staring at the ceiling, something clicked. It was then that I realized I'd been approaching sleep all wrong. All those books on mindfulness and relaxation techniques had done little to calm my racing thoughts. Maybe the problem wasn't finding inner peace; maybe it was just letting go of my need for control altogether.
I found myself drawn to true crime podcasts, a genre I never thought I'd be interested in. But as I delved into their dark world of crimes and conspiracies, something strange happened - I started to relax. My brain, once racing with anxiety and stress, began to slow down, absorbing the endless narrative without really thinking about it.
It wasn't until the next morning that I realized just how engrossed I'd become: completely absorbed in a story of brutal murder on a college campus, my eyes glued to the screen as the words blurred together. And then, suddenly, I was asleep. Not because I'd achieved some sort of zen-like state, but because I'd stopped trying so hard.
This epiphany made me realize that many of us approach sleep with all the pressure and expectation of a high-stakes exam or a performance review. We put too much mental effort into it, stressing over every little thing until we're wide awake again. But what if the real key to sleep was not relaxation, but distraction? Not trying so hard, but stopping altogether.
The truth is, true crime podcasts are not exactly the most relaxing medium - they're dark, gritty, and can be downright gruesome. But for me, that's precisely what worked. By immersing myself in their narrative, I somehow found a sense of calm that eluded me through all other means. Maybe it's because true crime stories are so engrossing, requiring the listener to shut down their critical thinking and just absorb the story.
Whatever the reason, this strange solution has worked for me - and I suspect, many others too. By embracing our dark side - the kind of darkness that keeps us up at night, listening to podcasts about brutal murders or gruesome crimes - we might just find ourselves drifting off into a deep, restorative sleep.
				
			One evening, as I lay awake staring at the ceiling, something clicked. It was then that I realized I'd been approaching sleep all wrong. All those books on mindfulness and relaxation techniques had done little to calm my racing thoughts. Maybe the problem wasn't finding inner peace; maybe it was just letting go of my need for control altogether.
I found myself drawn to true crime podcasts, a genre I never thought I'd be interested in. But as I delved into their dark world of crimes and conspiracies, something strange happened - I started to relax. My brain, once racing with anxiety and stress, began to slow down, absorbing the endless narrative without really thinking about it.
It wasn't until the next morning that I realized just how engrossed I'd become: completely absorbed in a story of brutal murder on a college campus, my eyes glued to the screen as the words blurred together. And then, suddenly, I was asleep. Not because I'd achieved some sort of zen-like state, but because I'd stopped trying so hard.
This epiphany made me realize that many of us approach sleep with all the pressure and expectation of a high-stakes exam or a performance review. We put too much mental effort into it, stressing over every little thing until we're wide awake again. But what if the real key to sleep was not relaxation, but distraction? Not trying so hard, but stopping altogether.
The truth is, true crime podcasts are not exactly the most relaxing medium - they're dark, gritty, and can be downright gruesome. But for me, that's precisely what worked. By immersing myself in their narrative, I somehow found a sense of calm that eluded me through all other means. Maybe it's because true crime stories are so engrossing, requiring the listener to shut down their critical thinking and just absorb the story.
Whatever the reason, this strange solution has worked for me - and I suspect, many others too. By embracing our dark side - the kind of darkness that keeps us up at night, listening to podcasts about brutal murders or gruesome crimes - we might just find ourselves drifting off into a deep, restorative sleep.

 I never thought I'd say this but true crime podcasts can be super calming? Like, for me it's all about stopping my brain from overthinking and trying too hard to relax. If you're one of those people like me who can't shut off your mind before bed, maybe give a dark podcast a try
 I never thought I'd say this but true crime podcasts can be super calming? Like, for me it's all about stopping my brain from overthinking and trying too hard to relax. If you're one of those people like me who can't shut off your mind before bed, maybe give a dark podcast a try 
 I mean, they might not be the most conventional solution but hey, it works for some people!
 I mean, they might not be the most conventional solution but hey, it works for some people!  And honestly, who needs calm and peaceful when you can just zone out on a gruesome murder story instead?
 And honestly, who needs calm and peaceful when you can just zone out on a gruesome murder story instead? 
 I think this is so interesting! I've been there with insomnia too, feeling like my brain's a jumbled mess and I'll never figure it out
 I think this is so interesting! I've been there with insomnia too, feeling like my brain's a jumbled mess and I'll never figure it out  . But maybe the key isn't finding inner peace, but just giving up control for once?
. But maybe the key isn't finding inner peace, but just giving up control for once? 

 . For some people, it might be reading a book or taking a warm bath – for others, it might be true crime podcasts (shh, don't tell anyone I'm obsessed with those too
. For some people, it might be reading a book or taking a warm bath – for others, it might be true crime podcasts (shh, don't tell anyone I'm obsessed with those too 
 ! But this article made me realize that maybe we're approaching sleep all wrong too. We need to find ways to distract ourselves from our kids' (and our own) anxieties, rather than stressing about it even more
! But this article made me realize that maybe we're approaching sleep all wrong too. We need to find ways to distract ourselves from our kids' (and our own) anxieties, rather than stressing about it even more  . For me, it's been listening to true crime podcasts (don't tell my kid
. For me, it's been listening to true crime podcasts (don't tell my kid 
 . Like, I get it, they want to help us stay on track and avoid distractions, but noooo, they go and make the notification system all obnoxious and loud
. Like, I get it, they want to help us stay on track and avoid distractions, but noooo, they go and make the notification system all obnoxious and loud 
 . Can't we just have a simple, quiet way to block out all the noise for like 2 hours without having to dig through every single app and settings?
. Can't we just have a simple, quiet way to block out all the noise for like 2 hours without having to dig through every single app and settings?  It's so frustrating when I'm trying to concentrate on something important and my phone just keeps interrupting me with silly memes and cat videos
 It's so frustrating when I'm trying to concentrate on something important and my phone just keeps interrupting me with silly memes and cat videos 
 . Come on, Apple, get it together!
. Come on, Apple, get it together! 
 True crime podcasts being the secret to sleep? Mind blown!
 True crime podcasts being the secret to sleep? Mind blown!