This is how we do it: 'After 50 years together, I'm more orgasmic than ever'

Seventy-three-year-old Valerie says she's more orgasmic now than ever, thanks in part to her 50-year-long relationship with husband Max. The couple has never prioritized intimacy over their romance, even as friends around them have given up on sex.

Valerie and Max met in 1975, when candlelight and incense were all the rage. Over the years, they realized that sex was essential to their partnership. When friends would say things like "I had so much sex when I was younger, I don't need it now," Valerie finds it heartbreaking.

The couple's experience has been marked by periods of reduced intimacy, such as after Max underwent knee surgery or when Valerie gave birth to their children. However, they've always made an effort to reconnect and prioritize affection. For them, cuddling, kissing, and romantic evenings are essential to maintaining a healthy sex life.

Valerie attributes her increased orgasmic potential to Max's enthusiasm for intimacy. "I can have five orgasms in a row now," she says with a laugh. This newfound ability has left her reading about multiple orgasms and realizing they're not just for the young.

Max, 73, echoes Valerie's sentiment that having good sex is crucial to a great marriage. He believes making your partner's orgasm the priority can make all the difference. The couple has adapted over the years, shifting from intercourse to oral sex when Max struggled with maintaining an erection.

For them, intimacy isn't just about physical contact but also about creating a sensual atmosphere and connecting on an emotional level. They've honed their skills through communication, touch, and affection, resulting in a more fulfilling sex life at 73 than ever before.

Valerie's message to her peers is simple: age doesn't have to be a barrier to intimacy. With the right mindset and attitude, older couples can maintain a healthy and passionate sex life for years to come.
 
Ugh I'm so over this forum's "latest stories" section πŸ™„ it's always the same old thing - old people being adorable about their sex lives. Can't we get some more diverse content around here? Like, Valerie and Max are nice and all, but isn't there someone in their 20s or something who could be sharing their own experiences? And why do I have to read a bunch of fluff about how couples adapt to aging when I just wanna see some real advice on how to spice up my own sex life? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ Anyway, I guess it's nice that they're out there being positive and all, but can we please get some more nuance in our discussions? πŸ˜’
 
πŸ™Œ I think it's awesome that Valerie & Max are defying the odds & still having an amazing sex life at 73! πŸ’• It's all about prioritizing intimacy & affection over physical performance. They're proof that age is just a number & that with the right mindset, you can stay fired up 😏. I mean, who needs a new partner when you've got someone who loves & cares for you unconditionally? πŸ€— Their approach to sex is all about communication, touch, and creating a sensual atmosphere - not just physical intimacy! πŸ’†β€β™€οΈ It's inspiring to see them thriving in their relationship & showing the world that it's never too late to get your groove back πŸ’ƒ. I'd love to see more couples following their lead & making intimacy a priority, regardless of age 😊.
 
omg u cant stress how cute this is! i mean Valerie & Max r literally proof that ur sexual health matters no matter how old u are 🀣 theyve been together 4 so long & still got it going on, & its all about making time 4 each other. like, cuddlin, kisses, romantic nites... stuff like that. they didnt 2 b pushed 2 do anything their friends said wud b better 2day, but instead they prioritized thier relationship & now Valerie's havin more orgasms than ever lol. its def inspiring to hear dat u dont hv 2 be young 2 enjoy ur sex life, & thats the real takeaway πŸ€—
 
I'm not sure I buy into this whole "50-year-long relationship = more orgasmic now" vibe. I mean, don't get me wrong, it's great that Valerie and Max have found ways to keep the spark alive, but is it really all about their enthusiasm for intimacy? What about the physical aspects of aging? Don't we need to talk about menopause, erectile dysfunction, or just plain old physical decline?

And what about power dynamics in relationships? Is it always about making your partner's orgasm a priority? Can't that be seen as objectifying or even controlling? I'm not saying they're doing anything wrong, but let's have a more nuanced conversation about intimacy and aging.

I guess my point is, we need to acknowledge the complexities of human relationships and sex. It's not just about passion or enthusiasm; it's also about biology, power, and communication. Let's not romanticize this whole "couples staying sexy at 73" thing without having a more realistic discussion about what that entails. πŸ€”πŸ’”
 
I gotta say, I'm loving this story about Valerie & Max 🀩... their 50-yr-old relationship is def proof that age is just a number πŸ’β€β™€οΈ! The fact that they've made intimacy a priority even after all these yrs is super inspiring. It's not just about the physical stuff, but also creating that emotional connection & sensual atmosphere 😊. Their approach to communication, touch, and affection is so relatable... who wouldn't want that in their partner? πŸ’• I'm curious, though - do they have any tips for maintaining that spark over time? πŸ€”
 
πŸ€” 73 is like ancient history now and yet they're still getting it on πŸ“ˆ Valerie's story is actually kinda inspiring but what about all those people who are struggling with intimacy? Like, what about the ones who can't even get past the "let's just cuddle" phase πŸ˜’ I mean, don't get me wrong, Max's enthusiasm for sex is pretty cool, but it's not like he's got some secret sauce or anything πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ It's all about communication and touch, which is great, but what about those people who are just stuck? Should they just give up? 🚫 I dunno... maybe Valerie's message will help some people but for others, it'll just be another reminder of how hard it is to keep the spark alive πŸ’”
 
I think its pretty cool that Valerie & Max are doing their own thing when it comes to sex at 73. Their relationship is all about making time for each other and prioritizing affection. It's awesome they've found ways to adapt and focus on the importance of emotional connection and sensual atmosphere. I mean, who says you need to be young to have amazing sex? It just goes to show that age is just a number and with the right mindset, anything is possible πŸ˜ŠπŸ’•
 
I'm loving this! 😍 It's amazing how much passion and love Valerie and Max have for each other at 73. They're proof that age is just a number and intimacy isn't something you lose with time. I mean, who needs candlelight and incense when you've got cuddling and romantic evenings? πŸ•―οΈπŸ’• Their story makes me wanna read more about older couples sharing their secrets to a healthy sex life. Maybe they can start a thread (get it?) and share their tips? πŸ˜‰
 
Image of an elderly couple cuddling in bed with hearts surrounding them πŸŠπŸ’•πŸ‘«πŸ”₯


Awwww they're proof that love is still sexy at any age πŸ˜˜πŸ”΄βš οΈ


50 yrs & still going strong πŸ’β€β™€οΈπŸ•ΊπŸ’ƒ


You do you, Valerie! Five orgasms in a row? Goals 🀩🌟
 
πŸ€” I cant believe how much energy these two are putting into their sex life at 73! Its actually kinda inspiring πŸ™Œ. Theyre making it clear that having good communication is key (obviously) but also just enjoying each other's company and being romantic. You can tell they really value their relationship over anything else πŸ’•. I mean, why would you want to stop doing something that makes you feel so alive when you're almost 75?! πŸŽ‰
 
OMG, I'm totally loving this vibe! 😍 73 and still going strong? That's what I call goals! 🀩 Valerie and Max are giving me all the inspo on how to keep the spark alive. Their secret is not just about physical intimacy but also creating a sensual atmosphere and connecting on an emotional level 🌹❀️. And let's be real, oral sex can be a total game-changer πŸ’‹πŸ‘€. I'm definitely going to take their tips on board and prioritize affection with my partner πŸ’•. Age is just a number, right? πŸ’β€β™€οΈ 50 years of love and commitment? That's something to aspire to! πŸ’«
 
😊 I'm living proof that age is just a number! My hubby and I are 38 and 40 respectively and we're still going strong πŸ’•. We've learned so much about each other's desires and what makes us tick, it's not the age that matters but how willing you both are to communicate and make an effort πŸ€—. It's sweet to see Valerie and Max thriving at 73, they're proof that sex is for every stage of life πŸ‘
 
I'm loving this story about Valerie & Max! 😊 They're living proof that age is just a number πŸ“† and that love can keep you going strong πŸ’•. I mean, who needs candlelight & incense when you've got cuddles & kisses πŸ˜‰? Their secret to a healthy sex life? Communication, touch, and affection... yep, sounds like me too! πŸ’― I'm 35, but my partner's always been my rock πŸ’ͺ, and we're still going strong 🀞. What's your take on this? Do you think older couples can still keep it hot πŸ”₯?
 
OMG πŸ’– this couple is literally goals!!! 🀩 I mean, 50+ year of marriage and still going strong! πŸ’• They're proof that age is just a number and with the right mindset, anything is possible 😘. I love how they've adapted to their changing needs and made intimacy a priority, even as friends around them have given up πŸ˜”. Valerie's newfound ability to have multiple orgasms at 73 is EVERYTHING 🀯! We should all take a page out of their book and focus on connection, affection, and communication in our own relationships πŸ’¬
 
I think its amazing how Valerie & Max made their 50-yr relationship sexy again by not giving up on each other πŸ€—πŸ’•. It shows us that age isn't a number but its the quality of our relationships that matters. We shouldnt focus on what others do in there 20s & 30s, but instead learn from people like Max & Valerie who have shown us that with love, effort & open communication, we can stay passionate & connected for life πŸ’•πŸ˜Š. I think this is a great lesson to share with our younger generation - be true to yourself and your partner, and never stop exploring & expressing your feelings! πŸ‘«πŸ’¬
 
πŸ€— I'm totally loving this couple's approach to sex and relationships! 50+ years together is no joke, but it's amazing that they've prioritized intimacy all these years. Their secret? Focusing on emotional connection and sensual atmosphere over physical intercourse. That's what matters most - not just the physical act, but the feelings and sensations involved. πŸŒΈπŸ’• It's so refreshing to see them embracing their age and finding ways to stay connected and passionate. And let's be real, who wouldn't want 5 orgasms in a row? πŸ˜‚ The key takeaway here is that intimacy isn't just for the young - it's an attitude, a mindset, and a commitment to making your partner feel loved and desired. πŸ’—
 
I'm loving this story about Valerie and Max! 🀩 They're proof that with commitment and communication, you can keep the spark alive even after 50 years together πŸ’•. I mean, who needs grand romantic gestures when cuddling and kissing are enough? πŸ˜‚ The fact that they've adapted to their changing needs is so inspiring – going from intercourse to oral sex when Max struggled with an erection, it's amazing how much you can still give each other without having to 'do' anything. Plus, Valerie's got five orgasms in a row now? 🀯 I'm not sure if that's possible for me at 50, but it's definitely made me think about what's been missing from my own relationships...
 
I'm not sure I buy into this whole '50-year-old couple having more orgasms now than ever' thing πŸ€”. I mean, yeah, Valerie and Max are definitely an inspiration, but is it really that uncommon for couples to make a conscious effort to prioritize intimacy? Don't get me wrong, their story is nice and all, but isn't it just more about the fact that they've learned what works for them over the years rather than some magical '50-year-old' thing happening? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
 
omg lol @ 50 yr old couple thats still goin strong 🀯😘 i mean ur like Valerie & Max rnt even tryna be cool or nothin they just straight up say they prioritize cuddlin & kissin over gettin jiggy wit it 😜 love it! and its so true, age dont hav to be a barrier 2 intimacy, esp if u got the right vibe goin on πŸ’•πŸ”₯
 
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