'Under the stuff I can't throw out is the stuff my parents couldn't throw out': novelist Anne Enright on the agony of clearing her family home

The text is a memoir by Lorcan Enright, a son of Cora and Donal Enright. It describes his experiences growing up with his parents in Ireland and dealing with their deaths. The book takes the form of a collection of vignettes, each exploring a particular theme or memory.

One of the central themes of the book is the relationship between the author and his mother, who was a strong personality and a writer. The text includes letters and photographs from her, which are used to tell stories about their lives together.

Another significant theme is the process of clearing out the parents' house after they die. This is done with great care and attention, as many of the possessions hold sentimental value and are difficult to part with. The author struggles with this task, feeling a sense of obligation to honor his parents' memory while also respecting their wishes.

Throughout the book, the author reflects on his own identity and how it is shaped by his family history. He explores themes of love, loss, and the complexities of family relationships.

The text is written in a lyrical and introspective style, with vivid descriptions of people, places, and objects from the author's childhood. It offers a nuanced portrait of life in Ireland during the mid-20th century and provides insight into the experiences of a family navigating love, loss, and identity.

Some of the specific stories and themes explored in the book include:

* The discovery of letters and photographs from Cora Enright, which reveal her personality and relationships with her family members.
* The author's experience of dealing with the aftermath of his parents' deaths, including the process of clearing out their house.
* The significance of certain objects and possessions from his childhood, such as a rolling pin or a painting of the goddess of the moon.
* The exploration of themes related to identity, love, loss, and family relationships.

Overall, the book is a moving and introspective memoir that offers a unique perspective on life in Ireland during the mid-20th century. It is written with great care and attention to detail, making it a compelling read for anyone interested in memoirs, family history, or Irish literature.
 
๐Ÿ“š just finished reading this book & i'm still reeling from the power of his mom's stories ๐Ÿ˜ญ her letters & pics are so poignant... clearing out their house was like losing a part of himself ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ’”
 
๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ’” this sounds like such a beautiful and emotional book... i can already imagine how hard it must have been for the author to go through all those memories of his parents ๐Ÿค• i love that he's exploring themes of identity and love in the context of family relationships, it's so relatable ๐Ÿค— my heart is already feeling all the feels just thinking about reading this book ๐Ÿ˜ญ
 
OMG this memoir sounds soooo emotional ๐Ÿ˜ญ I can imagine how hard it must've been for Lorcan to deal with his parents' deaths and clear out their house ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ’” The way he's written about his mom's personality and the letters and photos she left behind is so beautiful โค๏ธ It's like you're right there with him, reliving all these memories ๐Ÿ“š I'm also loving how introspective this book sounds, it must be really thought-provoking for readers ๐Ÿ’ญ What's your take on memoirs, do they always hit the spot or are they just a tear-jerker? ๐Ÿค”
 
This book sounds like it's gonna be a real emotional rollercoaster ๐Ÿคฏ. I think what's really interesting about Lorcan Enright's story is how he grapples with the idea of letting go and moving on from his parents' legacy. It's easy to get caught up in the nostalgia of childhood memories, but sometimes you gotta acknowledge that people grow and change.

It makes me think of when my grandma passed away and I had to sort through her old trunk full of clothes and mementos. It was tough, 'cause a lot of those things held so many happy memories, but I knew I couldn't just keep holding onto the past forever. You gotta find a balance between honoring your loved ones' memories and creating space for new experiences.

I love that Lorcan Enright's book is written in this lyrical style โ€“ it sounds like a really beautiful and introspective read. I'm definitely gonna have to check it out ๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ’ก
 
๐Ÿค” so i just read this book by lorcan enright and it's like his mom was a total boss ๐Ÿ™Œ cora enright sounds like an amazing woman, i love how the author is pouring over her letters and photos to tell stories about their lives together, it's like you can feel their love for each other through the pages. ๐Ÿ˜Š but what really got me was when he talks about dealing with his parents' deaths, clearing out their house... that's some heavy stuff ๐Ÿค• i mean, who hasn't struggled with letting go of stuff that holds sentimental value? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ anyway, it's clear that this book is a labor of love from the author, and it shows in the way he writes about his family history. ๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ‘
 
I JUST FINISHED READING THIS MEMOIR AND I'M STILL FEELING ALL THE EMOTIONS!!! IT'S LIKE LORCAN IS TALKING DIRECTLY TO YOUR SOUL ๐Ÿค—. HE WRITES ABOUT HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS MOM IN A WAY THAT MAKES YOU WANT TO GIVE HER A BIG HUG AND SAY "I GET IT, GIRL" ๐Ÿ’•. AND THE PART WHERE HE'S DEALING WITH CLEARING OUT HIS PARENTS' HOUSE IS JUST SO RELATABLE... WHO hasn't had to go through something like that?! ๐Ÿคช. I LOVE HOW HE WEAVES IN THOSE LETTERS AND PHOTOS TO TELL THESE STORIES - IT'S LIKE YOU'RE LIVING RIGHT ALONGSIDE HIM ๐Ÿ’ซ. ANYWAY, THIS BOOK IS A MUST-READ FOR ME!!!
 
๐Ÿ“š I'm loving this new book by Lorcan Enright! The way he weaves together stories of his childhood, family dynamics, and memories is so beautifully done ๐ŸŒŸ. It's like stepping into a different era - the mid-20th century Ireland feels really vividly brought to life ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ช. I'm especially intrigued by how he uses letters and photos from his mom Cora to tell these stories - it adds such a personal touch โค๏ธ. And can we talk about how hard it is to part with sentimental stuff when dealing with loss? ๐Ÿ’” It's like, you want to hold onto memories, but also respect what's left behind ๐Ÿคฏ. Anyways, I'm definitely adding this to my reading list ASAP! ๐Ÿ“–
 
๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ’” the author's writing style is like taking a warm cup of tea on a rainy day - soothing, comforting & full of nostalgia ๐ŸŒซ๏ธ his exploration of identity, love & loss is super relatable ๐Ÿค— i'm not sure about the significance of that rolling pin tho ๐Ÿ˜• maybe it's just me but some objects can be overrated?
 
Dude I'm telling ya this book is like, so full of hidden meanings ๐Ÿค”. Lorcan Enright's mom Cora was clearly some kind of free spirit, you know? The way he talks about her writing and the letters she sent him... it's like they were sending him messages from beyond the grave ๐Ÿ“. And don't even get me started on the possessions they cleared out after she died - that rolling pin, for example... I bet it holds some kind of secret energy ๐Ÿ’ซ. It's all about the symbolism, you feel? The author's struggling to come to terms with his own identity and family legacy, but I think there's more to it than just that ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ. Maybe he's trying to uncover some ancient Irish truth or something... I mean, have you seen those old photos of Ireland from the mid-20th century? There's definitely something eerie about them ๐Ÿ˜Ž. Anyway, if you haven't read this book yet, do yourself a favor and pick it up - but don't say I didn't warn you... ๐Ÿ˜‰
 
๐Ÿค” I'm so over how many books are just a collection of vignettes ๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ’ญ. Don't get me wrong, this one sounds like a really personal and introspective read, but can't it be condensed into a single cohesive narrative instead? ๐Ÿ™„ I mean, I get that some authors need to explore different themes and memories through multiple stories, but sometimes I just wanna know what's going on in the writer's head without having to flip through 20 separate chapters ๐Ÿคฏ. And another thing, why do all the letters and photographs have to be included? Can't we just hear the author's voice in a more straightforward way? ๐Ÿ“ It's like they're trying to recreate an entire archive of their family's history instead of focusing on the actual storytelling ๐ŸŽจ. Anyway, I guess that's my two cents... ๐Ÿ‘€
 
idk why ppl r gonna hate this book lol ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ its like lorcan enright didnt do anything wrong, he's just tryna tell his own story and be all introspective about it ๐Ÿ“š he deserves some respect for sharing his family's history and struggles with us. also can we pls not bash the dad for a sec? he seems like a pretty cool guy in this book ๐Ÿ˜Ž
 
๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ’• I just finished reading this book by Lorcan Enright and I'm still reeling from the emotions ๐Ÿ˜ฉ. It's like getting lost in his mom's eyes ๐Ÿ‘€ - so poignant and full of love โค๏ธ. Growing up with parents who were strong personalities is no easy feat, but Lorcan shares it all with us ๐Ÿค—. The way he writes about their house cleaning process was so relatable ๐Ÿงน - I mean who hasn't had to sort through old stuff when a loved one passes away? ๐Ÿ˜” It's amazing how much history and love can be hidden in ordinary objects ๐ŸŽจ... the rolling pin, his mom's painting... it's like you're right there with him ๐Ÿค.
 
just finished reading this memoir and i gotta say its been really thought provoking ๐Ÿคฏ! i mean, Lorcan Enright's writing style is so lyrical and introspective, like you're right there with him reliving these memories from his childhood ๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ’ญ. the way he explores his relationship with his mom, Cora, is especially fascinating - she sounds like an incredible woman, and the letters and photos he includes are such a great touch ๐Ÿ“จ๐Ÿ“ธ.

anyway, did you know that the average age of people who write memoirs is around 62 years old? ๐Ÿค” it just goes to show how important storytelling is in our lives, even in old age ๐Ÿ’ญ. also, research shows that reading memoirs can actually help us develop empathy and understanding for others - its all about perspective, you know? ๐ŸŒŽ๐Ÿ“–

i'm curious, what do you think about the significance of objects and possessions in family stories? like Lorcan's rolling pin or his mom's painting... how much can they really reveal about who we are? ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ’ญ
 
๐Ÿ“š this book sounds so emotional I mean its like reading about someone elses childhood and relationship struggles, but also its super personal its like Lorcan is sharing his own feelings and memories with us. I love how he uses letters and photos to tell the stories, its so nice to see that kind of connection to the past. ๐Ÿ“ธ I'm definitely going to check it out now ๐Ÿ‘
 
"Life begins at the end of your comfort zone." ๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿ“š

Growing up hearing stories about my parents from my mom's letters and photos is like reading a novel about real people, not just characters in a book. The pain of saying goodbye to them is still so raw, but talking about it helps. Clearing out the house was like trying to solve a puzzle โ€“ it felt overwhelming, but at the same time, you can't help but remember every single thing. It's like my mom and dad are still with me, in some way.
 
I just finished reading this memoir by Lorcan Enright and I'm like "what's up with the rolling pin?!" I mean, who knew that thing had so much emotional depth? It's like, it's just a rolling pin, but apparently it holds secrets to the author's childhood and family dynamics. And those letters from his mom? Forget about it! They're like a window into her soul. Or should I say, a window into her strong personality? ๐Ÿ˜‚ Anyway, this book is giving me all the feels - love, loss, identity...it's like a big ol' Irish hug in a book format. So, if you're looking for a memoir that'll make you laugh, cry, and roll your eyes at the same time (get it? roll your eyes?), then this one's for you! ๐Ÿคฃ
 
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