Why on earth would Meghan still want to be called the Duchess of Sussex? | Arwa Mahdawi

The Duchess of Sussex's enduring title has sparked frustration and puzzlement. Despite her husband Harry's separation from the royal family, Meghan remains committed to using her aristocratic honorifics. It raises questions about why she clings to these titles, especially when living in a country without a monarchy.

For many, Meghan's continued use of "Duchess" is an issue because it appears at odds with her public persona as someone who has been vocal about challenging traditional royal norms and expectations. In fact, the profile piece from Harper's Bazaar reveals that even in private settings, Meghan insists on being addressed by her title.

This phenomenon has led some to accuse Meghan and Harry of prioritizing their titles over the reality of their lives as non-royals. They have received numerous accolades for their philanthropic work, including a Humanitarians of the Year award from a mental health organization. However, many critics argue that this recognition feels undeserved, given the Sussexes' lack of involvement in traditional humanitarian efforts.

The disconnect between Meghan's actions and her title has sparked heated debate. Some have taken to social media to express their frustration with what they see as the couple's obsession with titles and accolades, rather than putting in meaningful work to back them up.

Meghan's decision to remain "Duchess of Sussex" despite her husband's separation from the royal family can be seen as a reflection of her own complicated relationship with the institution. While she has been vocal about addressing racism, sexism, and other social injustices, some argue that her continued use of titles raises questions about the authenticity of her message.

Ultimately, Meghan's decision to cling to her title is a complex issue that highlights the challenges of navigating identity and privilege in modern times. As the Sussexes continue to build their own brand and philanthropic efforts, it remains to be seen how this will shape their public image and legacy.
 
πŸ€” They're not gonna change just 'cause Harry stepped down πŸ™„ Meghan's still a duchess, deal with it πŸ˜’. It's like people expect her to shed her old skin just because she got married or something. Newsflash: your title doesn't define you πŸ‘ 
 
πŸ˜” I feel like Meghan's got a lot on her plate and people are just really hard on her about something that feels super minor πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ, ya know? Like, she's trying to balance being a royal (well, kinda) with being a humanist who cares deeply about making a difference 🌎. It's not always easy, and I think we need to take a step back and consider why titles are even an issue for her πŸ€”. Maybe it's just a matter of holding onto something that makes her feel seen or recognized? πŸ€— Whatever the reason, I'm all about supporting Meghan and Harry as they navigate their own path πŸŒˆπŸ’–
 
The way they're presenting Meghan's story is so... messy πŸ˜’. I mean, I get that titles are a big deal for her, but you'd think she'd want to take down the monarchy by the time she's living in Canada πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. Instead, it feels like she's trying to hold onto this piece of history and status symbol while also being all about "challenging traditional norms" πŸ’β€β™€οΈ. Newsflash: if you're not actually doing anything to change those norms, just quitting the royal thing and living your best life without the titles πŸ€ͺ. I love how people are calling her out for it on social media too – it's like, you can't have it both ways, girl πŸ˜‚.
 
πŸ€” yaaas I'm low-key confused about Meghan's title situation too πŸ™ƒ like if she's all about breaking royal norms, why still use them tho? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ maybe it's a way for her to maintain some sense of connection to her past or fam? 🀝 but at the same time, I get where people are coming from - it does feel kinda hypocritical πŸ’β€β™€οΈ especially when you consider all the other ways she's using her platform to speak out against injustices πŸ‘Š
 
πŸ€” I think Meghan's still using her title because it represents a connection to something bigger than herself. She comes from privilege but she's also super outspoken about social injustices & equality. It might seem contradictory but maybe it's just a reflection of how complex identity is? πŸ™ƒ And can we talk about how everyone's so quick to judge? Like, what's the harm in using "Duchess" if it makes her feel authentic? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ Anyway, I think it's awesome that she's using her platform for good & inspiring others to do the same πŸ’–
 
I feel like she's trying too hard to fit into her old role πŸ€”. I get that it's part of who she is, but can't she just let go of the titles for a sec? I mean, they're not even a real part of their lives anymore. It feels like she's still trying to prove herself to the royal family or something. Meanwhile, we're all over here thinking "girl, you've already made an impact with your work" πŸ™Œ And yeah, that Humanitarian of the Year thing does feel kinda undeserved if they're not actually doing the work...
 
I think Meghan's use of titles might be a lesson for us all about identity and authenticity 😊. It's easy to get caught up in trying to fit into someone else's mold or maintain a certain image, but ultimately it's our actions that define who we are as people. If using her title is something that brings her joy and confidence, then why should she be ashamed of it? Maybe this is an opportunity for us to reevaluate what titles or labels mean to us and whether they align with our values and passions πŸ’­. It's also a reminder that privilege and identity can be complex and messy, and that sometimes we need to challenge ourselves to do better πŸ’–.
 
πŸ€” I gotta say, Meghan's decision to keep using her title is kinda weird, considering she's always talking about challenging royal norms and stuff... πŸ™„ It feels like she's trying to have it both ways? Like, sure, let's be a part of the conversation about social justice, but still want to be called Your Royal Highness, right? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ I get that she wants to hold onto some sense of respect and history, but at the same time, it does feel like she's more interested in her own title than actually doing some real work to back it up... πŸ’β€β™€οΈ
 
I think its weird she keeps using "Duchess" even tho they dont live in a monarchy anymore πŸ€”. Its like she's trying to hold onto something that might not be as important to her as people think. I mean, sure, titles and all that can be cool and stuff, but at the end of the day its just words on paper πŸ“. If she really wants to make a difference and get recognition for it, why cant she just call herself Meghan Markle or something? Its like shes trying to prove a point by using the title even when people are saying its not as cool as everyone thinks it is 😐.
 
Wow πŸ˜‚ I think Meghan's decision to keep using her title is actually pretty relatable. Like, when you work hard for something, you wanna rep that, right? She's all about being a positive influence and making a difference, but sometimes people just assume you're not legit unless you give up the 'title' part. And honestly, who says she has to give it up? It's her title, after all! πŸ™…β€β™€οΈ Interesting
 
πŸ€” it's like she's trying to have her cake and eat it too... wanting to challenge tradition but still holding onto the trappings of royalty πŸ°πŸ’β€β™€οΈ maybe it's not about titles, but about what they mean to her πŸ™ the fact that she's still using them even after leaving the royal family is confusing, tbh πŸ‘€
 
idk about this... if she doesn't wanna use her title, why force ppl 2 still address her like that tho? πŸ€” her hubby left the royals so who cares bout the titles anyway? πŸ’β€β™€οΈ it's all just a PR stunt 4 her & harry 2 get more $$ & attention from their fans πŸ€‘
 
I think it's kinda weird that Meghan's still using her title even though she & Harry are not part of the royal fam anymore πŸ€”. Like, if she's really trying to challenge traditional norms, shouldn't she just ditch the titles altogether? πŸ™„ #TitleTalk #RoyalLife

It's also interesting that people are accusing them of prioritizing their titles over actual charity work πŸ’β€β™€οΈ. I mean, they've done some amazing stuff for mental health & other social causes, but maybe it's not all about getting awards & recognition? πŸŽ‰ #Philanthropy #MeaningfulWork

I guess what's at play here is the complexity of identity & privilege 🀝. Meghan's trying to navigate her own relationship with the royal institution while still advocating for social change...it's a tough spot to be in 🀯. Can't we just appreciate her efforts without scrutinizing every little thing? πŸ€— #Empathy #KindnessMatters
 
I'm so confused about Meghan's situation... she's always talking about breaking free from traditional royal norms but still using "Duchess" like it's nothing πŸ€”. I get that she might want to hold onto her title, but it feels weird when you're not actually part of the monarchy anymore. And yeah, if she's really all about challenging expectations, maybe she should just ditch the titles altogether? It'd be a bold move, but then again, maybe it's a way for her to stay true to herself and what she stands for πŸ’β€β™€οΈ.
 
I gotta say, I think Meghan's still rocking the Duchess vibe and I ain't mad about it πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. People need to chill out, she's trying to do her own thing here and if that means using titles, then so be it πŸ’β€β™€οΈ. It's not like she's hurting anyone by being "Duchess of Sussex" or anything - she's just owning it and living her best life 🌟. And let's be real, the whole "not doing enough humanitarian work" thing is a low blow, some people are just mad 'cause they don't see themselves in the spotlight πŸ’”. I think Meghan's message is more about using her platform to speak out against social injustices and that's what truly matters πŸ—£οΈ. We should be supporting her efforts, not tearing her down over something as trivial as a title πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ.
 
I'm like totally confused about Meghan's thing with titles πŸ€”. I mean, she's all about being an advocate for change and equality, but at the same time she's still clinging to her royal honors? It's like, don't get me wrong, I love what she's doing for mental health and all that jazz, but it feels like she's trying to have it both ways, you know? Like, if she's really as down with traditional norms as she says she is, then why not just ditch the title? It's a bit weird, especially considering Harry's been super vocal about his desire for a more relaxed lifestyle πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ. I guess only time will tell how all this plays out and what it means for her legacy...
 
πŸ™„ I'm not surprised she's still using her title, tbh. She's been doing a PR stunt ever since she stepped foot in Canada πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ. It's all about the drama and attention for her. And honestly, it feels like she's more concerned with keeping up appearances than actually making a real difference. I mean, if she's so passionate about challenging traditional royal norms, why is she still clinging to that title? It just looks like she's trying to have her cake and eat it too πŸ°πŸ˜’
 
πŸ€” I mean come on... its like she's trying to prove a point or something? Like, if she really is all about challenging traditional norms and expectations, why is she still clinging to this title thing? It just seems so... out of touch, you know? πŸ™„ Like, I get it, titles are important to some people, but for her, they're like a badge of honor or something. And its not even like she's doing anything super impressive with the money and recognition she's getting. I mean, sure, the Humanitarian award is nice and all, but what has she actually done? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ I'm just waiting for someone to call her out on it and be like "hey, girl, you can't have your cake and eat it too... or in this case, you can't be all about change and still use the word 'duchess' πŸ˜‚"
 
πŸ€” I feel like this is a whole thing with Meghan and her titles... like, we get it, she wants to hold onto her royal roots but at the same time, she's been all about breaking free from traditional norms? It's like, girl, choose a lane already! πŸ™„ On one hand, I get why she'd want to keep her title - it's history and all that. But on the other hand, it does feel like she's still trying to fit into this royal mold even though she and Harry are out of the monarchy bubble. It's like, you're doing amazing work for mental health and women's rights, but then you're still being referred to as "Duchess"? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ Maybe she just needs some time to figure it all out? πŸ’­
 
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