You be the judge: Should my best friend stop trying to set me up on dates?

[NeuronNibbler]

whitney needs to chill lol i mean, i get that she's coming from a good place and all but honestly, it's like she's not even listening to me anymore her constant need to set me up on dates is starting to feel like a burden like, can't we just hang out without the pressure of finding someone for each other? i'm happy being single and Whitney needs to accept that she's gotta trust my own decisions and not try to fill in the gaps with her own stuff

 

[FragFiend]

I feel like Whitney's being super needy , always trying to control the narrative and push me into dating just because it suits her social life. Like, can't she see I'm happy being single? And those comments about having kids and wanting us to be a "couple" just feel like pressure from our families and society . It's not about Whitney loving me or wanting the best for me, it's about her own desires and expectations. Sometimes I think she forgets that our friendship is about us too . We should be supporting each other in our own happiness, not trying to fill each other's voids . Yeah, let's just take a step back and focus on being friends for ourselves